JIM WALTERS' HOME PAGE FOR THE PARMELEE FAMILY


UPDATED FEB. 4, 2012 -- This is the page you'll want to bookmark.

Bethann Craig Doris Glen Kana Nick Ruth Tom
Meet other swell-looking cousins from across the Web by first name -- A through L and M through Z.
The website now averages more than 3,000 hits a month! Reach us at
ParmeleeFamily@gmail.com!

Announcements & News

Ross Parmley, right, has been named athletic director at Tulsa University Find out what other family members are up to, reunions, items for sale, lost & found and more.

UPDATED:
Feb 4, 2012

The Attic


Mementos, tools, street signs and the extraordinary. Above, Officer Parmelee poses with members of the Yuba City, Calif., Fire Department for the camera in 1901.

UPDATED:
Nov. 1, 2011

Cybercousins' Links

Meet Dianne Parmelee, left, the education coordinator at a Woodbury, Conn. nature center. Say hello to scores of other cybercousins from around the globe. You can browse by first name, A through L and M through Z.

UPDATED: Feb. 4, 2012

Family FAQs

Spelling? What does our name mean? The family in Europe? Those questions and more!

UPDATED: May 25, 2004

Family Photo Album


The
Henry Lincoln Parmley family, above, gathers for the camera in 1955. We've got hundreds of pictures and portraits of your ancestors and cousins.

UPDATED:
Aug. 1, 2011

Features


You'll never guess who sold their home to Sheriff Andy Taylor of
Mayberry. ...You'll also find letters from long ago, our connection to George W. Bush, a sheet music artist, authors and other feature stories about your cousins near and distant. Older features, such as hiking the Parmelee Farm at Killingworth, Conn., are kept in the Archives.

UPDATED:
May 1, 2011

Finding Your Twig

Finding or adding your branch of the family tree.

Home, Sweet Home

Our hometown of Guilford, Conn.

UPDATED:
Jan. 25, 2004

Memorial Park

Sarah Walton (Parmele) Cooke of Austin, Texas, has died at the age of 106. An index of obituaries -- more than 300 of them, some with pictures -- beginning in 1995.

UPDATED:
Feb. 4, 2012

The Nursery

Birth announcements.

UPDATED:
March 8, 2011

The Parmelee Family Magazine

Publication has ceased.

UPDATED:
Jan.15, 2001

Politics
One relative meets President John Quincy Adams and other nearly comes to blows with Theodore Roosevelt. ... And we're compiling a list of those who have served in federal, state and local office.

Dec. 1, 2011

This Old House


Family homes around
Guilford, Conn.
Some in
other Conn. towns.
In the
East, we've added a photo of the home of Robert Parmley of Parmleysville, Ky. And a Tudor Revival has been uncovered out West in Los Angeles, above.

UPDATED:
July 1, 2011

Queries / Lost & Found

Looking for a lost friend or relative? A list of pre-1800 unplaced family members. ... Maybe you can help solve other genealogy puzzles.

UPDATED:
April 1, 2010

Your Host

Who is Jim Walters (one busy boy!) and why on earth is he doing this?

UPDATED:
Feb. 1, 2010

Email: ParmeleeFamily@gmail.com


News: Navy Man Gets a Taste of Maine

U.S. Navy Electrician's Mate Scott Parmalee of Portland, Mich., who is serving on the USS Virginia and stationed at the Kittery Naval Shipyard in Maine, decided to do some deer hunting. He started out bow hunting near York and spied a big buck but couldn't get close enough for a clean shot.

During the second week of the season he hunted hard for that buck and finally saw him early one morning, but it wasn't light enough to shoot. As he waited for the sun to rise, he used his grunt call, to no avail.

But then a big doe came across the field looking right into the woods where the buck was.

And about that time he heard a grunt, looked over and saw a buck -- an even bigger one than he'd been hunting -- trot out of the woods. He took a shot as the animal was about to enter a briar patch and his season was over, scoring a 10-point, 200-pound buck.


Features: Burr, Cheney ... and Parmalee?

When it comes to a pol giving someone the business end of a firearm, we're right up there with Aaron Burr (the vice president who killed rival Alexander Hamilton in 1804) and Dick Cheney (the vice president who wounded fellow hunter Harry Whittington in 2006).

Daniel Stevens Parmalee [1821-1891; William, Dan, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a member of the Nebraska Territorial Legislature that met in Omaha in 1867, and a Douglas County member of the House of Representatives for the state's first two legislative sessions, from 1867 to 1871, made headlines when his feud with Tom Keeler erupted in gunfire in 1874.

The story made the front pages of newspapers nationwide.

It was made-to-order drama: a long-time grudge over a piece of property, two men blazing away at one another, runaway mule teams ... and Keeler was survived by two of his four wives!

I found a story that the Utica Daily Observer picked up from the Omaha Bee. Newspapers just don't write stories like this any more.


The Big Church

Washington's National Cathedral, damaged by the 5.8 August earthquake, remains open. Megan (Parmele) Field [Thomas Lee, Rufus "Earl" Earl, Edgar Charles, George Spenser, Lucius Seth, Seth, Giles, Jeremiah, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] pauses at one of the four piers of the central crossing, the one bearing the names of James C. [1855-1931; William Samuel, Samuel, Samuel, Ezra, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] and Alice (Maury) Parmelee (1866-1940), one of the original four $50,000 donors. The childless couple, who had an extensive art collection, lived at The Causeway.

Megan and James are fourth cousins, five times removed!


Features: Special Delivery

Kathy Janke of Winnemucca, Nev., sent me 15 unstamped wax-sealed letters she'd found in this box she'd bought at a garage sale. Inside were letters by Dr. Francis "Frank" Burdette Parmele [1815-1883; Henry, Joel, Nehemiah, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] and his family -- the loss of a baby, doubts about becoming a physician, the sorrow of separation -- written between 1828 and 1840!

Mail Call's latest discovery is a 1796 missive by Ens. Samuel Parmele.

UPDATED: Aug. 1, 2011


On the Streets Where You Live

Over the years I've run across these streets that have the family name in them. The most curious is Parmalee Drive in Kent, Ohio, from where my own kin hail -- but my family spells it Parmelee -- go figure!

Costa Mesa, Calif.: Parmley Lane
Los Angeles, Calif.: Parmelee Avenue
Indian Hills, Colo.:
Parmalee Gulch Road
Durham, Conn.: Parmelee Hill Road
New Haven, Conn.: Parmalee Avenue
Haddam, Conn.: Parmalee Lane
Newtown, Conn.:
Parmalee Hill Road
Newtown, Conn.:
Parmalee Park Place
Port Charlotte, Fla. Parmely Street
Punta Gorda, Fla.: Parmely Street
Conley, Ga.: Parmalee Path
Chicago, Ill.:
Frank Parmelee Way
Rockford, Ill.: Parmele Street
Waukegan, Ill.: Parmalee Place
Monticello, Ky.:
Parmley Street
Nicholasville, Ky.: Parmelee Circle
Parmleysville, Ky.
Parmleysville Road
Wayne County, Ky. Parmely-Griggs Loop
Eliot, Maine: Parmley Lane
Middleville, Mich.: Parmalee Road
Fair Lawn, N.J.: Parmelee Avenue
Hawthorne, N.J.: Parmelee Avenue
Summit City, N.J. Parmley Place
Leroy, N.Y.:
Parmelee Road
Mohegan Lake, N.Y.: Parmly Court
Mohegan Lake, N.Y. Parmly Road
Castle Hayne, N.C.: Parmele Road
Wrightsville Beach, N.C.: Parmele Boulevard
Wrightsville Beach, N.C.: Parmale Drive

Cleveland, Ohio: Parmelee Avenue
Elyria, Ohio: Parmely Avenue
Hudson, Ohio: Parmelee Drive
Kent, Ohio: Parmalee Drive
Perry, Ohio: Parmly Road
Tallmadge, Ohio: Parmelee Drive
Youngstown, Ohio: Parmelee Avenue
Seven Hills, Ore.: Parmalee Drive
Murrells Inlet, S.C.: Parmelee Drive
Cypress, Texas: Parmley Creek Court
Buffalo, Wyo.:
Parmelee Street

Did we miss your street?
Email me; photos welcome!


Veterans

Here we honor those family members in uniform, from Colonial times to the Afghanistan and Iraq wars. More details are being added to those on the rosters for the Revolutionary and Civil wars. Pictures of Revolutionary War soldiers' headstones are also being added. And we're thankful for your submissions, like this one from Allan Ray Parmley [Randolph Hay, Roland Duvall, Miles, Emerson Bell, Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], who stands at the headstone of great- great- great- great- grandfather John Parmley (1762-1848), who fought in the Revolution.

Colonial wars Revolution
War of 1812 Mexican War
Civil War War with Spain
World War I World War II
Korean War Vietnam War
Gulf War Afghan War
Iraq War Others

UPDATED: Feb 4, 2012

Did your ancestor register for the World War I draft? I have 688 cards filed under our name. The data provide a nice snapshot of the family in 1917-18.

Mysteries: Can You Help?


W
ho was Dr. John Parmele (ca1801-1844) -- and why is his tombstone sitting with another in the basement of a Milwaukee church?
We're pretty sure that one of the photos in this album is that of Robert Parmley (1789-1875), who was the father of 24 -- count 'em, 24! -- children. But just who the rest of these folks are has us stumped. Can you help us identify any of these people?

Maybe you can solve some of these other photo mysteries ...


Genealogy:The Early Generations

The pieces are slowly coming together on the first generations to live in America and the last to live in England and continental Europe. The vast majority of the North American Parmelee families of all spellings trace their roots back to Johns Sr. and Jr. who arrived in Connecticut in the 1630s. These families helped found Guilford, where the Congressional Church, left, now sits on the site of our family's first home. The rest of the families are related to those who came to Pennsylvania in the 1840s.

UPDATED: Dec. 1, 2007

A list of the pre-1800 "unplaced" Parmelees.


A Few Notables

Did you know that members of our family include ...

  • Leroy "Roy" Parmelee (1907-1981), who pitched for the New York Giants, St. Louis Cardinals, Chicago Cubs and the Philadelphia Athletics? His widow, Ortha, recently died at 99
  • Chris Parmelee, who plays first base/outfield for the Minnesota Twins? He was selected in the first round of the 2006 amateur draft and played for Florida and Connecticut farm teams.
  • Grace Parmelee, who in 1988 became the first Asian-American female warrant officer in the U.S. Coast Guard?
  • Oakland Raiders cheerleader Michelle Parmley?
  • Bernie Parmalee (1967- ) who played for the Miami Dolphins and New York Jets and is now a coach for the Kansas City Chiefs?
  • Football player Jalen Parmele, who played for the Baltimore Ravens?
  • Descendants of Phoebe (Parmelee) Castle (1779-1856), founders of Castle-Cooke, which financed the Dole pineapple industry, are buried at the Royal Palace in Honolulu?
  • James C. Parmelee, a major contributor to the Washington National Cathedral in our nation's capital?
  • Dentist Levi Spear Parmley (1790-1859), who, in 1819, was the first to advocate flossing? Brothers Eleazer (1797-1874), also a dentist, has been honored with a medal, right.
  • Architect Julia Morgan (1872-1957) who designed William Randolph Hearst's castle at San Simeon, Calif., the Herald-Examiner building in L.A. and many YWCAs? (Her mother was Eliza W. Parmelee.)
  • Parmly Billings, whose grief-stricken family funded a library in his name in Billings, Mont., when he died at age 25? (His mother was Julia Parmly.)
  • Charles Roy Parmelee (1896-1931), who piloted the Prince of Wales -- later King Edward VIII, who abdicated -- during the prince's tour of Central America?
  • Composer Charles E. Ives (1874-1954), whose mother was Mary Elizabeth Parmelee?

Established March 27, 1997.