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DEATHS: 2010-present
To post a death announcement, send a newspaper clipping complete with the newspaper's name, page number and date to 323 Park Ave., Long Beach, CA 90814. Feel free to add other information, but beware that items will be edited for space. Only people whose surname is one of the Parmelee spellings or their spouses will be posted. Pictures are accepted. The oldest family members that I am aware of have been Ruth (Latham) Parmelee, 107, of Denver; Sarah Walton (Parmele) Cooke, 106, of Austin, Texas; Frank P. Parmley, 105, a longtime employee of the Buffalo News; Cleo Alice (Parmley) Jenkins, 101, a U.S. Postal Service worker; and Hazel (De Rade) Parmelee of Buffalo, N.Y., and Eliza Esther (Ullery) Parmley, of New Carlisle, Ind., who both lived to 100. |
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DORIS (BRECHLIN) PARMELEE 1913-2012
Doris, widow of Edward D. [Frederick Franklin, Benjamin Franklin, Samuel Ward, David, David, Joseph,
Joseph, Isaac, John, John] Parmelee, died Jan. 3, 2012, at The Pines at Bristol, Hartford County, Conn. Born
March 5, 1913, in Meriden, New Haven County, Conn., she was the daughter of Charles and Carolyn (Keller)
Brechlin. Doris lived in Middletown, Middlesex County, Conn., most of her life and in Westbrook, Middlesex
County, Conn., for 30 years and was a member of The Church of the Holy Trinity in Middletown. Edward died
in 1985. Among her survivors are son Peter of Middletown; daughter Lorraine Stankus of Wolcott, New Haven
County, Conn.,; five grandchildren; and nine great-grandchildren. A private graveside service will be held at the
convenience of the family in Indian Hill Cemetery in Middletown. Donations may be made in Doris' memory to The Church
of the Holy Trinity, 381 Main St., Middletown, CT 06457. The Doolittle Funeral Home of Middletown was in charge of
arrangements.
DOROTHY (YOUNG) PARMELE 1924-2012
Dorothy, widow of Arthur Frederick [Milton, --?--] Parmele, died Jan. 3, 2012, at the Clifton Springs Hospital Nursing Home at Clifton Springs, Ontario County, N.Y. She was born July 13, 1924, in Everett, Middlesex County, Mass., daughter of Archie and Grace (Hanson) Young Sr. She worked as a cadet nurse at the Canandaigua Veterans Administration Hospital where she met Arthur. She was a member of St. Felix Catholic Church and its Rosary and Altar Society, a member of the Clifton Springs Historical Society, and was involved with Cub Scouts and Brownies, the Clifton Springs PTA, the Senior Citizen AARP, and the Sebastian Women's Guild in Florida. Dorothy retired as the nurse administrator of the nursing home and skilled nursing facility at Clifton Springs Hospital. Among her survivors are sons Arthur Jr. of Canandaigua, Canandaigua County, N.Y., and Robert of Clifton Springs; daughters Kathleen Thomas of Webster, Monroe County, N.Y., Patricia Farnsworth of Keystone Heights, Clay County, Fla., and Sharon DeRuyter of Clifton Springs; seven grandchildren; two great-grandchildren; and special friend Don Robinson. She was preceded in death by husband Arthur Sr.; son Edward; brothers Albert, Edward and Archie Jr.; sisters Helen and Grace; and grandson Bryce Edward Parmele. Burial was at Clifton Springs' Riverview Cemetery in Clifton Springs. Contributions may be made to the Clifton Springs Nursing Home Activities Dept., 2 Coulter Road, Clifton Springs, N.Y. 14432.
ETHEL MARIE (PARMLEY) YORK 1916-2011
Ethel [Thomas Benton, William Henry, John, Richard, Ephraim, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] died Dec. 30, 2011, at Granby House in Granby, Newton County, Mo., following a lengthy illness. She was born June 23, 1916, in Newton County, the daughter of Benton and Nellie (Henry) Parmley, and was a lifelong area resident and a cosmetologist. She married John York, who preceded her in death in 1975, and is survived by sister Juanita Williams of Newtonia, Newton County, Mo.; brother Thomas "Joe" of Seneca, Newton County, Mo.; numerous nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews. She was preceded in death by brothers Henry, George, and Johnny; and sisters Ella and Irma. Burial was at Granby's Berwick Cemetery. The Clark Funeral Home Chapel in Granby was in charge of arrangements. Contributions in Ethel's memory may be made to the Ethel York Memorial Fund, c/o Clark Funeral Home, P.O. Box 26, Granby, 64844.
RICHARD DALE PARMLEY 1951-2011
Richard [Narvel, Roscoe Samuel, Andrew "Jiff," Miles R., Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] died Dec. 28, 2011. He was born April 6, 1951, the son of Narvel and Thelma (Stephenson) Parmley. He and Sheila M. Crabtree were married and divorced twice. In addition to his mother, he is survived by sons Jason of Louisville, Jefferson County, Ky., Jonathan of Monticello, Wayne County, Ky.; daughter Jane Sexton of Monticello; eight grandchildren; brother Curtis of Monticello; and sisters Linda Shepperd, Lana Branscum, and Marilyn Muse all of Monticello. He was preceded in death by his father, and brother Jeffrey. Richard loved walking in the woods, squirrel hunting, fishing, drawing and painting, and playing the guitar. One of his favorite magazines was National Geographic and history. Monticello's Marvin S. Hicks Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements. Burial was at Parnell Methodist Church Cemetery.
MARY HILDEGARD (GILSEY) PARMLEY 1925-2011
Mary, a longtime resident of Newcastle, Lincoln County, Maine, and the widow of Ralph Doggett [Tim
Hennessey, Samuel Mitchison, Edward Mitchison, Samuel, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John]
Parmley, died Dec. 23, 2011. She was born Feb. 23, 1925, in New York City, the daughter of Gardner and Hilda
Gilsey. Until the age of 5, she and her parents lived in a Greenwich Village brownstone. When the Great
Depression hit, the family moved to Hampton Bay, Suffolk County, N.Y., where they had a salt water farm at the
tip of the peninsula that the native Shinnecock Indians called "Good Ground." Mary spent endless summer days
on the beaches of Long Island, or out with her father collecting clams (cherrystone, quahogs and steamers). She
also enjoyed fishing regularly. As a result, Mary acquired a deep respect for the world around her, the mountains, forests,
shorelines and the seas. Her love for animals was profound. She and Ralph were married in Paris on Nov. 16, 1947. He
had been employed by Pan American Airlines as the head supervising engineer to build airports in Africa during World
War II. After the war they lived in Ireland, and then eventually retruned to the U.S., to Mendham, Morris County, N.J.
There, Mary taught athletics at the Country Day School for 20 years. Then, in the late 1960s, they became tired of the urban
sprawl and deciding to move to Newcastle on the Damariscotta River. She took courses on aquaculture at the University of
Maine's Darling Center in Walpole, and helped establish the first Damariscotta aquaculture business. She was also later a
founding member of the Damariscotta River Assn., was instrumental in creating the Lincoln County group home, She served
as Newcastle selectman, and was also on the board of the Watershed Ceramics Center for the Arts. Sometimes known as
"Crazy Oyster Mary" she will be remembered for her philanthropic works. She is survived by sons, Rodney, Randy and
Robin, as well as many grand- and great-grandchildren. Arrangements were handled by the Strong-Hancock Funeral Home
in Damariscotta.
PHYLLIS A. (PARMELEE) CRAMER 1937-2011
Phyllis [Loman George, Gardiner Henry, Zeno "Philander," Zeno, Gardner, Nehemiah, Nehemiah,
Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] died Dec. 20, 2011, in Shrewsbury, Worcester County, Mass. Born Nov. 22,
1937, in Barberton, Summit County Ohio, Phyllis was a daughter of Loman and Ann (Vodlick) Parmelee. Her
mother later remarried and she was raised by her stepfather, James Lane. She was graduated from Barberton
High School and earned a bachelor's degree from Kent State University. She and Richard E. Cramer were
married June 7, 1959. Shortly thereafter he was drafted to the Army and served overseas in Germany until 1963.
They settled in Cuyahoga Falls, Cuyahoga County, Ohio until moving to Endicott, Broome County, N.Y., in 1982
and four years later to Shrewsbury. Mindful of her roots, loyalty and love of Ohio, she also loved living in New England.
While in Ohio, she taught sixth grade at Woodrow Wilson Elementary School. Upon moving to Shrewsbury she tutored
teens at the Oxford House for many years. She was a talented knitter, quilter and did needlepoint. She was also a collector
of numerous Cat's Meow Collectibles, which included wooden replicas of many of her favorite places. She also took great
pride in having established and operated an online support groups for folks battling anxiety and depression. Among her
survivors are daughters Cindy A. Cramer and Karen L. Mancini, both of Shrewsbury; brothers Larry of Akron, Summit
County, Ohio, and James II of Barberton; three grandchildren; and nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her
husband of 50 years, Richard. Burial was at Shrewsbury's Mountain View Cemetery. The Heald & Chiampa Funeral
Directors of Shrewsbury Center was in charge of arrangements. Memorial contributions may be made to the Oxford House,
in c/o YOU Inc., 81 Plantation St., Worcester, MA 01604.
HUNTER ALLISON PARMALEE 1995-2011
Hunter [Craig Patrick, Darwin Allison, Frederick Allison, Frank O., Chester Alanson, Jason, Luther, Ozias,
Nathaniel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a student at Journey High School in Scottville, Mason County,
Mich., died Dec. 11, 2011, the day after the speeding vehicle in which he was riding went off of the road and hit
ran several trees. Hunter had turned 16 on the day of the accident. He was born Dec. 10, 1995, in Muskegon,
Muskegon County, Mich., to Craig Patrick Parmalee and Tanya Rader. Hunter liked to hunt, fish, ride quads,
attend mud runs, and work on cars. His survivors include his parents, Craig of Rothbury, Oceana County, Mich.,
and Tanya of Custer, Mason County, Mich.; brothers Aaron and Austin both of Custer; maternal grandparents
Dorothy and Robert Battice of Custer, and Donna Rader of Branch; paternal grandparents Darwin Parmalee of Florida and
Jeanine Cover of Shelby, Oceana County, Mich.; great-grandmother Vivian Parmalee of Lansing, Ingham County, Mich.;
various aunts, uncles, and cousins. Hunter was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, David Rader. Services were
held be held at the Mason County Reformed Church in Scottville. The Stephens Funeral Home of Scottville was in charge
of arrangements.
LARRY PARMLEY 1943-2011
Larry [Oliver, Andrew "Jiff," Miles R., Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] died
Dec. 4, 2011. He was born March 10, 1943, son of Oliver and Lyda (Stringer) Parmley. Among his survivors
are brothers Jerry, Rook, Mark and Dale; sisters, Charlotte Crouch, Janet Bates, and Niokie Parmley. He was
preceded in death by brothers Rex and Eric; and nephews Brandon Parmley and James Parmley. The Marvin S.
Hicks Funeral Home of Monticello, Ky., was in charge of arrangements. Burial was at the Methodist Church
Cemetery in Parnell, Wayne County, Ky.
MILDRED L. (DUDLEY) PARMLEY BALL 1917-2011
Mildred [unplaced], a teacher and secretary, died Dec. 1, 2011, at the Warrensburg Manor Care Center,
Johnson County, Mo. She was born June 3, 1917, in Centerview, Johnson County, Mo., the daughter of Val C.
and Cora E. (Thomason) Dudley. She and William K. Parmley were married Jan. 17, 1942, After his death, she
married Ralph Ball on March 25, 1989; he died July 11, 1999. Mildred, a 1934 graduate of Centerview High
School, received a Bachelor's Degree in Education as well as her Master's Degree in Counseling and Guidance
from Central Missouri State University. She taught for three years at Country School and then taught third and
fifth grades at Centerview Elementary for the next 22 years. In business, she was secretary for Parmley Truck
Line for 10 years. She also owned and operated the Plaza Bowl in Warrensburg for 26 years. She was a member of the
Missouri State Teachers Association and attended the First Presbyterian Church in Warrensburg. Mildred is survived by
grandsons Tom and Terry Shaw, both of Centerview; granddaughter Barbara Stegner of Centerview; stepdaughters Nancy
Day of Kansas City, Jackson County, Mo., and Betty Prouty of Springfield, Greene County, Mo.; 14 great-grandchildren,
and four great-great-grandchildren. She was also preceded in death by sons William Roger Parmley and Gary C. Parmley;
daughter Elizabeth Sharon Shaw; and brothers Richard and Jim Dudley. Burial was at Warrensburg's Sunset Hill Cemetery.
The Sweeney-Phillips & Holdren Funeral Home in Warrensburg was in charge of arrangements. Memorial contributions
may be made to Johnson County Hospice and can be left at the funeral home.
THE REV. PAUL S. WILCOX 1948-2011
Paul, husband of Joy Walton Parmelee [Harold Leslie, Benjamin Franklin, Samuel Ward, David, David,
Joseph, Joseph, Isaac, John, John] died Nov. 9, 2011, at his home in New Cumberland, Cumberland County,
Pa. He was born in Jamestown, Chautauqua County, N.Y., on March 19, 1948, son of R. Leslie Wilcox and
Dorothy (Stanley) Wilcox. He grew up in Frewsburg, Chautauqua County, N.Y., and served as a United
Methodist pastor since 1969. In August of that year, Paul and Joy were wed. Paul enjoyed hiking (having hiked
more than 3,500 miles), fishing and bird-watching, and led backpacking camps for youth and adults. He also
loved Alaska, and directed work teams of volunteers to build or renovate churches and homes in some of the
state's most remote villages. An avid reader, Paul was known for working through several books at the same time. In
addition to his widow and his mother, he is survived by son Daniel of Unalaska, Alaska; daughters Amy Perez of
Philadelphia, Philadelphia County, Pa., Rebekah Wilcox of Harrisburg, Dauphin County, Pa.; six grandchildren; sister
Linda Wilcox of Frewsburg, N.Y.; sister-in-law Patti (Parmelee) Thompson; and mother-in-law, Ella (Walton) Parmelee of
Maple Shade, Burlington County, N.J. He was preceded in death by his father and his brother-in-law, Harold ''Tad''
Parmelee. Burial was at Fishing Creek Salem United Methodist Church in Goldsboro (post office is Etters). Memorial
contributions may be made to the Rev. Dr. Paul S. Wilcox Memorial Scholarship, payable to Fishing Creek-Salem United
Methodist Church, 402 Valley Road, Etters, PA 17319.
THE REV. ROBERT NORMAN PARMLEY 1939-2011
Pastor Bob [Chester Wilfred, Chester Nelson, Frederick David, William Cockfield, Solomon, Mark, Mark,
Job, John, John; and also Chester Wilfred, Chester Nelson, Frederick David, Elisa Ann, Reuben, Levi, Mark,
Job, John, John] died Nov. 7, 2011, at his home in Lenoir, Caldwell County, N.C., after a courageous battle
with cancer. He was born Feb. 27, 1939, in Meriden, New Haven County, Conn., to the Rev. Chester Wilford
and Sarah (Wilcox) Parmley. He was graduated from Christian High School (currently Lexington Christian
Academy) and attended Berkshire Christian College in Lenox, Berkshire County, Mass., where he received a
bachelor's degree in ministry. After working with the Chinese Christian Church in Boston during college, he
began his ministry in Lenoir in 1961, as associate pastor and music and youth director at the First Advent Christian Church.
In 1966, Bob formed Lenoir Community Church as an interdenominational ministry, where he ministered until his death. He
also founded and directed the Southernaires Gospel Choir, formed Camp Miracle, a summer youth camp, and was founder
of Lenoir Christian Academy. He was also instrumental in the direction of "The Witness," an Easter passion drama which
has been presented for the past 32 consecutive years. He also had numerous opportunities to preach and sing both nationally
and internationally, and, as an accomplished musician, produced numerous recordings. Among his survivors are nephews
Jimmy Parmley of Grand Bend, Ontario, Canada, Gary Parmley of South Berwick, York County, Maine, Larry Parmley of
Eliot, York County, Maine, Gil Parmley of Douglas, Worchester County, Mass., and Paul Nygard of Southington, Hartford
County, Conn.; nieces Jody Dahlen of Eliot, and Sharon Hudson of Southington; and "son" Tim Hawkins and wife Shannon
and their children, Gabriella, Simon, Nicholas and Isabella. He was preceded in death by a brother, Stanley, and a sister,
Grace Nygard. One service was held at his church, and another will be held in the New England area at a later date.
Memorial contributions may be made to the church, 1002 Lower Creek Drive, Lenoir, NC 28645. The Greer-McElveen
Funeral Home and Crematory handled arrangements.
GEORGE ELDEN PARMELEE 1951-2011
George [Luke Wheelock, George Everett, Luke Wheelock, Daniel Everett, Asaph, Jonathan, Joshua, John, John] died at his home in Delray Beach, Palm Beach County, Fla., on Nov. 5, 2011. He was born Jan. 8, 1951, in Lincoln, Addison County, Vt., the son of Luke Wheelock and Evelyn M. Parmelee. His survivors include his soul mate Karen Rome, daughters Jaime and Jennifer, and sister Marilyn Parmelee. He was predeceased by his first wife, Joan Hawks Parmelee. His family and friends celebrate his life at The Chart House in Weehawken, N.J.
KENNETH BRUCE PARMELEE 1948-2011
Kenny [Louis Ray, Louis "Ray" Ray, George Washington, Moses Edwards, Moses, Oliver, Jonathan, Joshua,
John, John] died of cancer Oct. 30, 2011, in his home in Niles, Berrian County, Mich. With him was his wife,
Diane (Dudek) Parmelee, and his animal friend, Alex. Kenny was born May 17, 1948, in Mishawaka, St. Joseph
County, Ind., a son of Louis Ray Parmelee Jr. and Mae Ernestine (Jennings) Parmelee. One of eight children, his
surviving siblings are sisters Barbara Snyder of South Bend, St. Joseph County, Ind., Beverly Harris of Emory,
Rains County, Texas; and brothers Louis III of Tippecanoe, Marshall County, Ind., David, Dennis, and Phillip,
all of South Bend. Childhood memories are of Kenny's comedic ways, his love of music, motorcycles and cars,
and his early compassion for animals and the suffering of others. Kenny attended Washington High School in South Bend
and was employed by Hover Trucking. Kenny and Diane were married June 25, 1988. Kenny accepted early retirement in
1989. He loved gardening and Biblical study. Preceded in death by his father, and oldest brother Thomas, Kenny is also
survived by sons Troy of New Carlisle, St. Joseph County, Ind., Travis of Jacksonville, Duval County, Fla., and Daniel of
Niles; and granddaughters Brooke and Bria Rose Parmelee of South Bend. Burial was at St. Joseph Valley Memorial Park
in Granger. The Kaniewski Funeral Home of South Bend was in charge of arrangements. Memorial contributions may be
made to Hospice at Home, 4017 Chamberlain Road, Buchanan, MI 49107.
HELEN VIRGINIA (PARMELEE) BROOKS SANDERSON 1933-2011
Helen [Meredith B., Eugene/Elmer Clyde, Byron F., Lemuel, Jeremiah, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John,
John] died Oct. 28, 2011, of a bone infection at Emeritus Silverdale Memory Care Facility, at Silverdale,
Kitsap County, Wash. The daughter of Meredith B. and Margaret (Robertson) Parmelee, she was born Feb. 12,
1933, in Chicago, Cook County, Ill. Her first husband was Nick Brooks, whom she married in 1953, and her
second was Hollis "Sandy" Sanderson, whom she married in 1976. She was actively involved in Cub Scouts,
Bluebirds, being a room mother, and the PTA. She loved to bowl and was a scorekeeper when her children
bowled in their Junior leagues. Helen worked at Mare Island Naval Shipyard from 1971 to 1993. Widowed in
2005, she moved the following year to Silverdale where she was a member at Silverdale Baptist Church. Helen is survived
by sons Bob and Bill Brooks; daughters Barbara Doty and Becky Mesa; eight grandchildren; one great-grandson; three
stepdaughters; and many step-grand and step-great-grandchildren. A gathering to celebrate her life was held in Suisun City,
Solano County, Calif. Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer's Association, Western & Central Washington
State Chapter, 100 W. Harrison St., North Tower, Seattle, WA 98119.
ELLEN SALLY (PRICE) PARMLEY 1933-2011
Ellen, a retired financial employee and widow of Thomas [unplaced], died Oct. 17, 2011. She was born Sept.
6, 1933, in Midvale, Salt Lake County, Utah, to Milan and Eva (Derikrava) Price. She was a graduate of Jordan
High School and worked at First Federal Savings and American Express, where she retired. She resided at the
Rocky Mountain Care Center. She is survived by son Michael Robert Parmley; grandsons Austin Michael
Parmley and Dylan Chandler Parmley; brothers Don and Mitchell Price; sisters Ann Theos and Amelia Price;
and her dog, Chewy. She was preceded in death by brothers George, Proko and Robert Price; and sisters Soka
Bozanic, Mary Price, Mamie Church, Dorothy Drekulich, Ruby McCardell and Rose Barrington. At her request
there were no services.
SHELDON PERRY PARMELEE 1932-2011
Sheldon [Hoyt Perry, Hoyt Perry, Horatio "Harvey" Plum, Linus Smith, Joshua, Joshua, Jehiel, Joshua,
John, John], an Army veteran and Civil Service worker, died Oct. 14, 2011. He was born Jan. 18, 1932, in
Chicago, Ill., the son of Hoyt Perry and Vivien Elizabeth (Shutt) Parmelee. Among his survivors are widow
Blanca; sons Guillermo Jr., David, Jesse, and Craig Morales; daughter Sylvia Morales; seven grandchildren;
and eight great-grandchildren. A funeral Mass was said at St. Raphael Catholic Church. Burial was at Fort Bliss
National Cemetery. The Sunset Funeral Home-East was in charge of arrangements.
MARY JANE (PARMLEY) WILDER KINNER 1955-2011
Mary died Oct. 12, 2011, at her home in a Mowrystown, Highland County, Ohio. She was born in Cincinnati, Hamilton County, Ohio, on Dec. 23, 1955, the daughter of Randolph Hay [Randolph Hay, Roland Duvall, Miles, Emerson Bell, Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] and Zella (Kirk) Parmley. Among her survivors are sons Josh Wilder of Sardinia, Brown and Highland counties, Ohio, and Jeremy Wilder of Milford, Clermont and Hamilton counties, Ohio; daughter Tina Yonker of Blanchester, Clinton and Warren counties, Ohio.; brothers Randy Parmley of Batavia, Clermont County, Ohio, and Allan Parmley of Camp Dennison, Hamilton County, Ohio; sisters Anna Fantetti of Mowrystown, Donna Riehle of Newtonsville, Clermont County, Ohio, and Evelyn Sturgeon of Wilmington, Clinton County, Ohio; eight grandchildren; and a great-grandchild. The Wallace-Thompson Funeral Home in Peebles, Ohio, was in charge of arrangements. Burial followed in Locust Grove Cemetery near Peebles.
JANE M. (RUNK) PARMELEE 1930-2011
Jane, the widow of David L. [Charles "Allen" Allyn, Charles A., James, James (?), James, Moses, Hezekiah, Joel, John, John] died Oct. 7, 2011, in Los Angeles, Los Angeles County, Calif. She was born Nov. 21, 1930, in Chicago, Cook County, Ill., the daughter of Russell and Helen Runk. She graduated from Whitefish Bay High School in Milwaukee, Milwaukee County, Wis., and attended UCLA where she was a member of the Gamma Phi Beta sorority. She worked as a legal secretary and real estate agent. She volunteered with the Mary Duke Guild and enjoyed reading, traveling with her friends and beating them at cards. She is survived by sons Larry of Los Angeles and John of Seattle, King County, Wash.; daughter Meredith of Los Angeles; and seven grandchildren. Burial was at Forest Lawn Memorial Park in the Hollywood Hills.
JOANN RUTH (POWERS) WALTERS 1928-2011
Joann, an educator and the first kindergarten teacher for the New London (Ohio) Local School District, died
Oct. 3, 2011, in a Columbus, Franklin County, Ohio, nursing home. She had been in declining health for several
years. She was born March 30, 1928, at Bucyrus, Crawford County, Ohio the daughter of Fred. S. and Anna
Mary (Souders) Powers, and grew up in Columbus, graduating from West High School in 1945. She met her first
husband, James F. Walters [Frances "Fanny" Pearl, Frank Hart, Luther Hart, Elisha, Theodore, Abraham,
Abraham, Isaac, John, John], while they were attending Bowling Green State University and were wed in 1949.
They moved to his home town of New London and taught across the hall from one another at North Fairfield
elementary school. While she spent several years away from the classroom raising her children, she ran a private
kindergarten in her home. When the district created its first K class in 1963, it had no room, so Joann taught morning and
afternoon sessions in the Sunday school classrooms of the United Methodist Church. Among her students was daughter Jane
who was admonished by one of her classmates: The teacher is Mrs. Walters, not Mommy! In between cross-country
summer family camping excursions, Jim and Joann earned masters degrees at Western Michigan University. In 1969, the
family moved to Greenwich, Huron County, Ohio, where he became principal at South Central High School and she was
hired by Willard Area Schools, first as a teacher at Richmond Elementary and then as an administrator. After Jims death in
1973, she was employed as an administrator with the Richland County Department of Education. Joann married a fellow
educator, Harold R. Hayden, in 1975, and the two lived briefly in Columbus before retiring to Florida, where they resided
in Venice, Sarasota and Punta Gorda, and she wrote federal grant applications for Charlotte County. After their divorce, she
lived in Goose Creek, Berkeley County, S.C., for several years, and had a brief marriage to Charles Oswald. Following
that divorce, she lived with her daughters family in Mulberry, Polk County, Fla., and then moved to Columbus when her
health began to deteriorate. She is survived by sons Jim F. Walters, the host of this website, of Long Beach, Los Angeles
County, Calif., and Joel D. Walters of Columbus; brother James A. (and Pat) Powers of Hendersonville, Henderson County,
N.C.; son-in-law Michael Shaffer; and grandchildren Anna and Payden Shaffer. In addition to her first two husbands, she
was preceded in death by daughter Jane A. Shaffer. Burial was at New London's Grove Street Cemetery. The Eastman
Funeral Home in New London was in charge of arrangements. Memorial donations be made to the charity of your choice.
JOSEPH PAUL PARMELEE 1929-2011
Joe [Frederick James, William Harry, Harry William, -- ? --], a resident of Binghamton, Broome County,
N.Y., and a retired employee of Mapes Moving and Storage, died Sept. 18, 2011. The son of Frederick and Ruth
(Crandall) Parmelee, he was born April 17, 1929. Joe worked for several moving companies and was an avid
bowler. He is survived by his wife of 30 years, Janette; daughters Loretta Jones, Doreen Smolinsky, Joanne
Tofte, and Andrea Harris; nine grandchildren; 10 great-grandchildren; brothers James, Louie and Donald
Parmelee; sisters Marge Cornell, Pearl Campbell, Marguerite Fredricks, Beatrice Laudovici, and Dawn
Gilmore; and his faithful dog, Buddy. He was predeceased by sister Ruth Ruland; and brothers Fred, Harry, and
George Parmelee. One of the highlight of his last few years was walking every morning to Chris' Diner. When Joe could no
longer make the walk, several friends would pick him up so he could have his pancakes and sausage, and share time with
them. Burial was at Binghamton's Spring Forest Cemetery. The William R. Chase & Son Funeral Home of Port Dickinson
was in charge of arrangements. Contributions may be made in Joe's memory to The Humane Society, 2 Jackson St.,
Binghamton, NY 13903.
ELSIE MAE (STORMONT) PARMELEE LOWMAN 1922-2011
Elsie died Sept. 18, 2011. She was born Feb. 13, 1922, in Bakersfield, Kern County, Calif., the oldest of Walter
and Elsie Stormont's 12 children. Elsie and her high school sweetheart William George [unplaced] Parmelee
were wed in 1941. After serving in the military during World War II as a boiler maker, he returned home and
worked for the Santa Fe Railroad, and then Arco Oil until he retired. After his death in 1980, she met National
Geographic photographer Hubert Lowman at church in Arroyo Grande, San Louis Obispo County, Calif., and
they were married in 1992. After his death in 2006, she lived in her home at the Grandmothers Park in Arroyo
Grande, then returned to Bakersfield in 2009 and enjoyed life at Carriage House Estates and then Glenwood
Gardens. Elsie worked at Kress' Five & Dime, and many years as the seamstress for Elyse Dress Shop and Judds Specialty
Shop. She enjoyed singing, and belonged to various clubs and organizations including Native Daughters of the Golden
West, Grandmothers Clubs in Bakersfield and Arroyo Grande and Goldenaires. She visited England, Ireland, Alaska,
Hawaii, Australia and much of the United States. She was preceded in death by her husbands; brothers Jim, Sam, Gilbert,
Ted and Dick Stormont; son Billy Parmelee; and granddaughter Kimmie Parmelee. Among her survivors are sons Bob,
Dick and John; daughter Teresa; grandchildren Christopher, Robyn and Cole Parmelee; brother, John Stormont; sisters
Esther Chapman, Joy Bircher, Jean Towne, Lydia Belle Carl, and Barbara Jane Lewis; and many nieces and nephews.
Burial was at Bakersfield's Hillcrest Memorial Park & Mortuary.
NATALIE 'NAT' (MERRILL) PARMLEY 1929-2011
Nat, widow of Stanley H. [Chester Wilford, Chester Nelson, Frederick David, William Cockfield, Solomon,
Mark, Mark, Job, John, John], died Aug. 22, 2011, at her home, 6 Parmley Lane, in Eliot, York County, Maine.
Born in Scarborough, Cumberland County, Maine, on Jan. 16, 1929, she was the daughter of Elmer and Sadie
(Milliken) Merrill. She grew up in Berwick, York County, Maine, raised by her mother and husband Fred
Corliss. She was a 1946 graduate of Portsmouth High School. Among her survivors are daughter Jody Dahlen;
sons James, Gary, Larry, the Rev. Gil, and Walter Willert; 11 grandchildren; 16 great-grandchildren; and sister
Verna Burbank. She was preceded in death by her husband, Stanley, in 2005; brother Lyman; sister Rosalie
Rowan; and daughter-in-law Yvonne Parmley. Nat's greatest love was her family, being home each day for her children,
and being a part of her grand- and great-grandchildren's lives. She was a member of the Portsmouth Advent Christian
Church, where her funeral was held, and most recently the South Eliot Advent Christian Church. The J.S. Pelkey Funeral
Home of Kittery, York County, Maine. Donations may be made in her memory to the American Diabetes Association.
ARLO L. PARMLY 1935-2011
Arlo [unplaced], a resident of Viroqua, Vernon County, Wisc., died July 18, 2011, at Vernon Memorial
Hospital surrounded by his family. He was born in Ferryville, Crawford County, Wisc., on Jan. 24, 1935, to
Leon and Bessie Parmly. Arlo joined the Air Force in February 1954, and was married to Janice Getter on Dec.
26, 1954, at the Viroqua Church of Christ. While in the service they lived in Biloxi, Harrison County, Miss.,
Great Falls, Cascade County, Mont., and RAF Mildenhall base in Suffolk, England. He was a member of the
Bozeman Chord Rustlers Barbershop Chorus and Charlie McGuire & Co. Quartet. Arlo was also an elder in the
Church of Christ and a member of New Life Community Church He is survived by his wife; daughters Pamela
Flink of Kalispell, Flathead County, Mont., and Paula Dickinson of the independent city of Bristol, Va.; sons Perry of
Rome, Oneida County, N.Y., Preston of Fulton, Whiteside County, Ill., and Phillip of Yokota Air Base in Japan; brothers
Bob Womack of Rialto, San Bernardino County, and Bud Whitney of Viroqua; nine grandchildren; and four
great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by sister Clarice Brown; and a grandson.
ROBERT LEE PARMELEE 1919-2011
Bob [Arthur Hugh, Leander Burton, Timothy Truman, Timothy, Mark, Job, John, John], a real estate agent
and salesman, died July 14, 2011, at the Osburn Living Center in Miami, Ottawa County, Okla. His hobbies
were reading his Bibles and books; he loved horses, cats and dogs. He was born Jan. 2 1919, in Oklahoma City,
Oklahoma County, Okla., the son of Arthur and Edna Parmelee. Bob was the valedictorian of his class at Capitol
Hill School in Oklahoma City and attained the rank of second lieutenant in the Army in World War II. He and
Ada Louise Carter were married in 1944, and lived in Oklahoma City during the '50s where he was a broker and
sales associate for Parmelee Real Estate; Ada also was a sales associate. In the '60s they moved to Muskogee,
Muskogee County, Okla., and he was a salesman for the Independent Fruit Co. In the '70s Bob worked for Piggly Wiggly
and Humpty Dumpty grocery stores, retiring in 1985. Ada died in 1989, and by August 2006, Bob was homeless, sleeping
in the back of his Chevrolet station wagon on a lot in southwest Muskogee. His companions were his horse, Stormy, and 18
cats that depended on him for food. His plight touched the hearts of many in town: He was the subject of Sunday school
lessons and sermons throughout town the morning his story was told in the local newspaper. By the end of the day, many
people had come by to check on the man and his horse. They offered food and water and to clean the shed where Stormy
stayed. By early in the week, people had found him a place to stay. Bob was a lifetime member of the Seventh-Day
Adventist faith. He was survived by daughter Sharon Taff of Bluejacket, Craig County, Okla.; grandchildren Gregory Taff,
Tyler Taff, Tiffanie Taff Davis, Adrianne Taff Tierney, Dr. John Parmelee Jr., Michelle Parmelee, Tina Parmelee
Maynard; many great grandchildren; and nieces and nephews. In addition to Ada, he was preceded in death by sons Robert
and John; sisters Arta Stone, Margaret Chapshaw, June Moore, Christine Shannanhouse; and brother Billy Gene Parmelee.
WAYNE W. PARMALEE 1940-2011
Wayne [unplaced], a resident of Portage, Columbia County, Wisc., died July 12, 2011, at St. Clare Hospital in Baraboo, Sauk County, Wisc. He was born Nov. 9, 1940, in Portage, the son of Milton and Janet (Riemer) Parmalee. He and Mary Zieroth were married Feb. 14, 1982, at St. John's Evangelical Lutheran Church in Portage. He worked for Zinke Dray Lines, Country Plumber, Portage Furniture and most recently as a crossing guard for the Portage School District. He served his country with the U.S. Navy. Wayne enjoyed reading (especially Louis L'Amour books), his cats and supported the Columbia County Humane Society. Wayne liked camping and attending the Demo Derby at the fair. Among his survivors are his wife; his children, Harold Cook of Sheboygan, Sheboygan County, Wisc., Debora Putnam of Reedsburg, Sauk County, Wisc., and Hiram "Buddy" Hernstine of Portage; 11 grandchildren; 12 great-grandchildren; and sister Barb Taylor of Eau Claire, Eau Claire County, Wisc. Burial was at Silver Lake Cemetery. The Pflanz Mantey Mendrala Funeral Home in Portage was in charge of arrangements. A memorial fund has been established in Wayne's name.
BRIAN CRAIG PARMERLEE 1960-2011
Brian [Richard Howard, Vernon B., --?--, Stephen, John, John], an outdoorsman and tarp manufacturer, died
July 9, 2011, at his home in Martinsville, Ind. He was born Oct. 25, 1960, in Martinsville, to the late Richard
Howard Parmerlee and Margretha L. (Sandusky) Parmerlee Tuttle. Brian worked for Gosport Manufacturing
where he made tarps. He was a 1978 graduate of Martinsville High School and enjoyed fishing, ginseng and
mushroom hunting. Among his survivors are his mother; stepfather Wendell Tuttle of Westmoreland, Sumner
County, Tenn.; son Brian Jr.; daughter Katherine Elizabeth Amelia Parmerlee of Spencer, Owen County, Ind.;
brother Richard Jr. of Ellettsville, Monroe County, Ind.; sisters Vicki Briant of Franklin, Johnson County, Ind.,
and Regina Treece of Martinsville, Morgan County, Ind.; one granddaughter; and several nieces and nephews. He was
preceded in death by his father and a nephew. Burial was at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, Monrovia, Morgan County, Ind. Neal &
Summers Funeral & Cremation Center of Martinsville was in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, the family was
seeking contributions to help defray funeral expenses.
TONYA PARMLEY 1976-2011
Tonya [unplaced], a lifelong resident of Monticello, Wayne County, Ky., died June 22, 2011, at UT Medical Center in Knoxville, Tenn. She was born June 1, 1976, in Monticello, the daughter of Jackie and Bonnie (Hunley) Davis, and was married to Michael Parmley, who survives her. She is also survived by daughter Taylor Davis of Monticello; sisters Tabitha Blevins and Crystal Ridge, both of Monticello, and Heather Stogsdill of London, Laurel County, Ky.; and nieces and nephews. Burial was at Parnell Methodist Church Cemetery. The Marvin S. Hicks Funeral Home in charge of the arrangements.
BONNIE (INGRAM) PARMLEY ca1943-2011
Bonnie, wife of Brownlow "Brownie" Eugene [Thaddeus "Gene" Eugene, Thaddeus "Thad," William
Harrison, Robert, Robert, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] died June 14, 2011, at Rapides
Regional Medical Center, Alexandria. Rapides Parish, La. She was 72. Bonnie was the daughter of James Irvin
and Johnnie Marie (Bearden) Ingram. In addition to her husband of 52 years, Bonnie is survived by sons Eric of
DeRidder, Beauregard Parish, La., and Brian of Alexandria; sisters Johnnie Thompson of Arkadelphia, Clark
County, Ark., and Martha Fielle of Marshall, Harrison County, Texas; grandson Brad Parmley of DeRidder; and
great-grandchildren Michael and Annabelle Parmley.
LEONARD DELL PARMLEY 1943-2011
Leonard [unplaced], a retired tower manager at Louis Armstrong International Airport, died June 9, 2011, at
this home in Ponchatoula, Tangipahoa Parish, La. He was born April 4, 1943, in Jackson, Jackson County,
Mich., son of George and Irene (Drude) Parmley. Among his survivors are his wife of 45 years, Peggy (Smoot);
sons Philp and Michael; daughters Sandra Neuman and Sarah Parmley; seven grandchildren; and brother George.
He was preceded in death by brothers Bobby, Ralph and David. Burial will be in Holly Gardens Cemetery in
Hammond, Tangipahoa Parish, La. Contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society. The Harry
McKneely & Son Funeral Home in Hammond was in charge of arrangements.
ALEXIA LYNAE PARMELE 2005-2011
Alexcia [Alicia Ann, Ronald Charles, Charles Sergeant, Harry Dillon, Henry William, Moses William,
James, Moses, Hezekiah, Joel, John, John], a preschooler who enjoyed hair bows, makeup, and just being a
beautiful little girl, died May 30, 2011, at Covenant Health Care in Midland, Midland County, Mich., after
traffic accident. Michigan State Police said the car in which she was riding didnt stop for backed-up traffic on
eastbound U.S. 10 near Mackinaw Road in Monitor Township, struck another vehicle and went across the
median near Mackinaw Road. She was born Oct. 17, 2005, in Midland, the daughter of Alicia Ann Parmele. She
loved to sing, dance, and attended Stepping Stones Day Care and Preschool. In addition to her mother, she is
survived by sister Aleiyia, grandfather Ronald Parmele of Midland; aunts and uncles, Melissa Hancock, and Christopher,
Matthew, Jordan, Jalen, Emanuel, Darian, James and Joshua Parmele. She was preceded in death two day earlier by
grandmother Catherine Parmele. The Ware Smith Woolever Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements.
CATHERINE MARGUERITE (ANDERSON) PARMELE 1944-2011
Catherine, wife of Ronald Charles [Charles Sergeant, Harry Dillon, Henry William, Moses William, James,
Moses, Hezekiah, Joel, John, John] Parmele, died May 28, 2011, at the MidMichigan Medical Center in
Midland, Midland County, Mich., after a battle with cancer and many years of diabetes-related illnesses.
Catherine devoted her life to her 10 children, enjoyed the beauty of her tropical birds, and worked in the rescue
of dogs. She was born Dec. 28, 1944, in Des Moines, Polk County, Iowa, the daughter of Conrad A. and
Marguerite (Olson) Anderson. Catherine attended Stephens College in Columbia, Mo., and graduated with a
bachelors degree from the University of Arizona in Tucson. She taught elementary education in Iowa until she
and Ronald were married July 14, 1972, in Davenport, Scott County, Iowa. In addition to her husband, she is survived by
her children Melissa Hancock, and Christopher, Matthew, Alicia, Jordan, Jalen, Emanuel, Darian, James and Joshua
Parmele; and 11 grandchildren. The Ware Smith Woolever Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements. Memorial
contributions may be made to the Great Lakes Mastif Rescue, c/o Jan Corlew: Boulder Ridge Farm, 6330 Greenwood
Road, Gladwin, MI 48624-9132.
ROBERT ALLARD PARMELEE ca1933-2011
Robert [unplaced] died May 19, 2011, at his home in Elizabeth, Union County, N.J., surrounded by his family. He was 78. Born in Waterbury, New Haven County, Conn., the son of William and Rose Parmelee, Robert lived in Wallingford, New Haven County, Conn., before moving to Elizabeth in 1968. He was an airman first class in the Air Force during the Korean War. Robert was a graduate of Norte Dame High School in West Haven, New Haven County, Conn., and attended the University of Connecticut in Waterbury. Robert was the East Coast regional director for American Refractories and Crucible Corp. of North Haven, New Haven County, Conn., before his retirement in 1996. He was a parishioner of St. Genevieve's Roman Catholic Church in Elizabeth, a member of St. Vincent DePaul Church in Dingman's Ferry, Pa., and a member of the American Foundrymen's Assn. Among his survivors are his wife of 54 years, Muriel; sons Patrick, Michael, Kevin and David; daughters Maryann Parmelee, Kathleen Falk and Maureen Caplette; 16 grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by son John. Burial was at Newark's Mt. Olivet Cemetery. The Higgins and Bonner Echo Lake Funeral Home of Westfield, N.J., was in charge of arrangements. Donations in his memory may be made to the Valerie Fund of Maplewood, N.J., St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, or a charity of your choice.
CAROL 'KALO' (WILCOX) CARDOZO PARMELEE 1929-2011
Kalo, widow of Edward "Ted" Tryon [Allan Edward, Edward Kibbe, Calvin Zina, Zina, Elihu, Nathaniel,
Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a retired psychologist and former fashion editor of the Miami Herald, died
May 17, 2011. She and Ted lived in Sarasota, Sarasota County, Fla., and had a summer home in Rockland, Knox
County, Maine. She was born March 24, 1929, in Horicon, Dodge County, Wisc., the daughter of Russell and
Alice Wilcox; she was nicknamed Kalo by her older sister. In 1941 the family moved to Milwaukee, Milwaukee
County, Wisc., where she attended Milwaukee Downer School. She graduated as president of the 1950 senior
class from Smith College with a Bachelor of Arts in literature. Kalo worked as a sales manager at
Bloomingdales in New York City before settling Florida where she took a job with the Miami newspaper. She married
Mosby Gooding Cardozo in 1956 and had three children. After her 1963 divorce, Kalo raised her children, and earned a
master's degree and Ph.D. in psychology from the University of Miami. She became an associate professor, president of the
Florida Psychological Assn., and maintained a private practice in Miami. She and Edward were married in 1984. Among
Kalo's survivors are son Russell Cardozo of Columbia, Howard County, Md.; daughter Cary Paul of Boulder, Boulder
County, Colo.; stepchildren Scott Parmelee, Ellen Emerson and Lynne Warns; and three grandchildren. She was preceded
in death by her husbands; son Alexsei Cardozo; and sister Patricia Wilcox. Burial was at Horicon's Oakhill Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Smith College Alumni Fund or Tidewell Hospice of Sarasota. Wiegand
Brothers of Sarasota was in charge of arrangements.
HILLIS 'CLIFF' C. PARMELEE 1930-2011

Cliff [Hillis C., Hillis S., Marion W., James E., Ellsberry, Samuel, Giles, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel,
Nathaniel, John, John], a longtime educator and musician, died May 12, 2011, at his home in
Meridian, Ada County, Idaho. Cliff was born Sept. 27, 1930, in Denver, Denver County, Colo. He
served in the U.S. Air Force from 1950-54 at Williams AFB in Chandler, Maricopa County, Ariz. He
and Aurora Flores were married Aug. 18, 1951, in Chandler. He graduated in 1957 from Arizona
State University with a Bachelor of Arts, and earned a Masters of Arts in Music Education the
following year. Cliff taught in the Arizona public school system for two years, and then spent 28
years as an educator in the Pueblo, Pueblo County, Colo., public school system. He was a member of the Pueblo Symphony
Orchestra for nearly 20 years--he played several instruments including the piano and violin--and enjoyed fly-fishing,
camping, archery, dancing, bowling and traveling. He was a member of the Church of the Holy Nativity in Meridian and the
Meridian Senior Center. Among his survivors are wife Roe; sons Robert of Pasco, Franklin County, Wash., Richard of
Meridian, Thomas of Scottsdale, Maricopa County, Ariz., Rudolph "Rudy" of Rio Rancho, Sandoval County, N.M.;
daughters Linda Winston of Pueblo, Pueblo County, Colo., Becky Garner of Fountain, El Paso County, Colo., and Kathy
Henry of Meridian; brothers Lloyd of Genoa, Lincoln County, Colo., and Gary of Colorado Springs, El Paso County, Colo.;
sister Roberta Guinn of Denver; 16 grandchildren; and 15 great-grandchildren. Accent Funeral Home of Meridian was in
charge of arrangements. Memorial contributions may be made to the Meridian Senior Center, 133 W. Broadway Ave.,
Meridian, ID 83642.
TERRY LYNN PARMELEE 1957-2011
Terry [Howard H., Charles, --?--, Erastus K., Joshua, Joshua, Jehiel, Joshua, John, John] a certified heavy equipment mechanic, died April 28, 2011, at his home in LeRoy, Osceola County, Mich., just six weeks after receiving a cancer diagnosis. Terry was born Aug. 21, 1957 in Reed City, Osceola County, Mich., and moved to LeRoy and attended Pine River schools. He and Catherine Jean Waddell of LeRoy were married May 23, 1981, at LeRoy. He worked for the Hydaker-Wheatlake Co. for more than 20 years, until the month before his death. Terry's interests were working, and riding his Harley. His survivors include his wife; daughters Tricia of Paris, Mecosta County, Mich., and Amy of Reed City; two grandchildren; his mother, Orma, of LeRoy; brother Andy of Greenville, Montcalm County, Mich.; and sister Julie of Chapel Hill, Orange County, N.C. He was preceded in death by his father, Arlon; and brother Jeff. The Pruitt-Livingston Funeral Home in Reed City was in charge of arrangements. Burial was at Ashton Cemetery in Ashton, Osceola County, Mich.
QUENTIN WILLIAM PARMLEY-RUTLEDGE 1993-2011
Quentin [Christopher, William "Robert" Robert, William Robert, --?--], a senior at Mount Vernon, Ind., High
School, died April 24, 2011. He was born Feb. 13, 1993, the son of Christopher and Amy (Rogers) Parmley. He
enjoyed music and had a passion for songwriting and playing the guitar. His summers were spent at Holiday
Hills on Lake Barkley with his friends and family. He especially enjoyed playing basketball and attending
sporting events. In addition to his parents, he is survived by stepfather Joe Rutledge; brother Zach; sisters Haley
Jo and Andrea; grandparents William Rogers and Joyce Ungetheim, Glenda and David Houchins, Jerry and
Susan Rutledge, Marjorie Parmley, Geraldine Rogers and Sue Thompson. He was preceded in death by
grandfathers Robert Parmley, Gene Rogers and Floyd Hendricks. Services were held at First United Methodist Church in
Mount Vernon, Posey County, Ind.
CHARLES A. PARMLEY 1929-2011
Charles [William Alvis (?), William Irvin, Robert, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John],
co-founder of House of Hope Recovery Center in Grove, Delaware County, Okla., died April 21, 2011. He was
born April 8, 1929, in Tulsa, Tulsa County, Okla., to William and Mary Agnes (O'Dell) Parmley and was a
1946 graduate of Tulsa Webster High School. Soon after, Charlie joined the U.S. Army and served in Germany
at the end of World War II. After leaving the military, he went to work for the Spartan School of Aeronautics,
first as an instructor and later as director of student admissions. He and Barbara Herod were married Dec. 18,
1965, in Eureka Springs, Carroll County, Ark., and they moved to Maysville, Benton County, Ark., to farm and
raise a family. Charlie loved to spend most of his time outdoors and one of his favorite hobbies was cutting wood. Charlie,
a co-founder of the House of Hope, was a 41-year friend of Bill W. [Click here to hear Charlie tell his story in 1986.] He is
survived by wife Barbara; son Kurt Icenberger of Conroe, Montgomery County, Texas; daughters Charlotte Parmley of
Grove, Delaware County, Okla., Valerie Bookout of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma County, Okla., and Marcia Blaine of
Seymour, Webster County, Mo.; and 13 great-grandchildren. Charlie was preceded in death by brothers Jim and Bob.
Services were at Mt. Hermon Church in Jay, Delaware County, Okla., and burial was at Maysville Cemetery. The
Worley-Luginbuel Funeral home in Jay handled the arrangements.
MARY (PARMLEY) REYNOLDS 1920-2011
Mary [unplaced] a resident of Vienna, Johnson County, Ill., died April 16, 2011, at Lourdes Hospital in
Paducah, McCracken County, Ky. Mary was born Aug. 8, 1920, in Metropolis, Massac County, Ill., the daughter
of Thomas and Minnie (Steinkamp) Parmley. She and J.W. Reynolds were married on July 31, 1944, at
Metropolis; he died in 1997. She was a 1938 graduate of Metropolis Community High School and a former
co-owner of J.W. Reynolds Monument Co. She belonged to the Vienna First United Methodist Church. Among
her survivors are daughters Nancy Kirschner of Naples, Collier County, Fla., and Susan Lamb of Vienna; four
grandchildren; four great-grandchildren; and nieces and nephews. She also was preceded in death by brother
Bill Parmley. Services were at the church; burial was at Vienna Fraternal Cemetery. Memorials may be made to the church,
P.O. Box 1349, Vienna, IL 62995-1349.
GRACE (GLEBA) PARMLEY 1918-2011
Grace, a retired real estate broker and widow of Richard Henry [Seba, Mary Ellen, --?--] Parmley, died April
4, 2011, at her home in West Mifflin, Allegheny County, Pa. She was born in 1918 and was chosen by Frank and
Orlene Gleba of Allentown, Lehigh County, Pa. She was a broker for McShane Real Estate of Munhall,
Allegheny County, Pa. Grace was an active member of Amity Presbyterian Church of Dravosburg, Allegheny
County, Pa., and taught Sunday school for more than 60 years. Her survivors include son Rick of St. Simon's
Island, Glynn County, Ga.; daughter Kathleen Montgomery of West Mifflin; one grandchild and nieces and
nephews. The Jefferson Memorial Funeral Home of Pleasant Hills was in charge of arrangements.
BARBARA 'BABE' ROSE (MYERS) PARMELEE 1977-2011
Barbara, a longtime resident of St. Johns, a community within Portland, Multnomah County, Ore., a community
activist and widow of Loren "Red" Leonard [Loren Leonard, William Leonard G., Leander Burton, Timothy
Truman, Timothy, Mark, Job, John, John], died March 30, 2011, in her home. She worked as an administrative
assistant with the Portland Public Schools until her retirement in the early 1980s. Barbara was born Sept. 16,
1926, in Hoquiam, Grays Harbor County, Wash., to Frank O. and Esther A. Myers. She was raised and educated
in Hoquiam, and was graduated from Commerce (now Cleveland) High School in Portland in 1944. After high
school, Barbara moved to San Francisco. She and Loren eloped in 1951 and were married in Reno, Washoe
County, Nev. Loren was enlisted with the Army Air Corp and together they traveled the world and raised their family. They
came to Portland in 1969. Barbara worked with the Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, USAF Family Services, the PTA, the
American Legion, the 7th Ferrying Group, the Visiting Nurses Association, the St. Johns Parade Committee, the Peninsula
Senior Center and the Shirlee Ann Fund. She is survived by daughter SuAnn G. Parmelee; sons Glen A. and James R.;
grandchildren Amanda R. Parmelee and Amber N. Panian; a great-grandson; and brother David Myers. In addition to her
husband, she was preceded in death by daughter Glenn R. Parmelee; son Loren L. III; and brother Glen A. Myers. At
Barbaras request, no services were held. Contributions may be made to the Shirlee Ann Fund at Bank of America or USA
Cares. Hustad Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements.
CHRISTOPHER RYAN PARMELEE 1977-2011
Christopher [Billy Ray, Fred Edgar, Harry Edwin, Frederick Luman, James Edwin, Luman H., --?--] died March 12, 2011, at his home in Monticello, Wayne County, Ky. He was born June 17, 1977, in Somerset, Pulaski County, Ky., son of Bill Parmelee and the late Bonnie (Brooks) Cordell. Among his survivors are his father, Bill; brother Jonathan; nephew Chase; and grandmother Louise (Kendrick) Parmelee. Burial was at Monticello's Kendrick Cemetery. The Marvin S. Hicks Funeral Home in Monticello was in charge of arrangements.
JO ANN PARMELEE 1948-2010
Jo Ann [James Thomas, Leander Burton, Timothy Truman, Timothy, Mark, Job, John, John] died March 28, 2011, in Spain. No other details are known. She was born Sept. 29, 1948, the daughter of James Thomas and June May (Hartung) Parmelee. She was preceded in death by brother James.
RUTH (MUNRO) PARMELEE 1922-2011
Ruth, widow of Gordon E. [Gordon Edward, Edward Grant, Charles F., Elihu, Elihu, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], died March 8, 2010, at Milford Hospital in Milford, New Haven County, Conn. She worked for many years at W.T. Grant Co. in Milford and at Tiny Tot Daycare. In her later years she was employed at the Milford Senior Center. Daughter of Daniel and Anna Munro, she was born Nov. 10, 1922, in New Rochelle, Westchester County, N.Y. Among her survivors are sons Gordon II and Donald, both of Milford; daughter Carol Gable of Camp Verde, Yavapai County, Ariz.; 12 grandchildren; 17 great-grandchildren; one great-great-grandchild; brother Robert of Charleston, Charleston County, S.C.; and sister Doris of Concord, Merrimack County, N.H. She was predeceased by brothers Donald and Morton; sisters June, Barbara and Betty; and great-granddaughter Kimberly Ann Parmelee. Cody-White Funeral Home of Milford handled arrangements. Memorial contributions may be made to Masonicare Home Health and Hospice, Administrative Office, 33 N. Plains Industrial Road, Wallingford, CT 06492.
KENNETH E. PARMLEY 1936-2011
Kenneth [John Ballenger, Chrisman, Aladdin, Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a
former Marine and a career General Motors worker, died Feb. 28, 2011, at home in Ridge Farm, Ill. s
residence. He was born Feb. 17, 1936, in Eadsville, Wayne County, Ky., the son of John Ballenger and Ferbie
Ellen (Gross) Parmley. His first wife was Patty Washburn who died in 1998. He later was wed to Georgia
Middlemas, who survives. Kenneth was a past member of the Eagles in Danville, Vermilion County, Ill., and the
Moose Lodge in Casey, Clark County, Ill. Kenneth also enjoyed playing his guitar. Other survivors include sons
Steve of Bismarck, Vermilion County, Ill., and Scott of Greenfield, Hancock County, Ind.; daughters Lora Drown
of Florida, and Lisa Myers of Indianapolis, Marion County, Ind.; stepchildren Mike Middlemas of Lawrenceville,
Lawrence County, Ill., Jeff Middlemas of Boise, Ada County, Idaho, James Middlemas of Peoria, Peoria County, Ill., and
Janet Jones of Westville, Vermilion County, Ill.; many grandchildren; great-grandchildren; brothers Roscoe of Westville,
Lawrence of Decatur, Morgan County, Ala., and James of Indianapolis. He was preceded in death by several brothers and a
sister. A graveside service was conducted at Cumberland Cemetery in Casey. Houghton-Leasure Funeral Chapel of
Georgetown, Ill., was in charge of arrangements.
PHILIP HOWARD PARMELEE 1941-2011
Philip [Howard William, Wallace Joel, Howard Royce, Joel Royce, William, Dan, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a flying enthusiast, died Feb. 17, 2011. Born Oct. 29, 1941, in Hudson, Summit County, Ohio, he was the son of Howard and Anne (Stein) Parmelee. He attended Hudson schools, graduating in 1959. He obtained a commercial airplane license and was a certified flight instructor. He served in the Army and worked for the housing department for the city of Los Angeles for a number of years before retiring to Florida where he joined a friend in cattle ranching. He is survived by a cousin, Kathryn Newbolt Davis of Camillus, Onondaga County, N.Y., and friends.
JOYCIE 'JOYCE' RAE (HALL) SCOGGINS PARMLEY 1924-2011
Joyce, widow of Charles C. [Thomas H., Del Vere, Walter "William" Lafayette, John, Giles, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] Parmley and a cafeteria worker for many years, died Feb. 12, 2011. She was born Feb. 2, 1924, in Crawford County, Ark., to Jesse and Mary Ellen (Brewer) Hall. Joyce married Walter N. Scoggins in 1949 and they had three children. They moved to the Kansas City area in 1951, and later divorced. In 1962, Joyce married Charles Parmley. She worked at the Forum Cafeteria in Independence, Jackson County, Mo., for many years, and later, operated a children's day care from her home. Joyce was a long-time member of the Life Church of Kansas City, where she served as a Sunday school teacher for many years. She was preceded in death by husband Charles in 1994; infant son Michael Charles Parmley; and all four of her siblings. She is survived by four children, Walter Scoggins, Jess Scoggins, Judy Gunderson, and Patti Parmley O'Neal; eight grandchildren and many great-grandchildren. Burial was at Mt. Washington Cemetery in Independence. The Carson-Speaks Funeral Home of Independence was in charge of arrangements.
EDNA LUCILLE (BRIDENSTINE) PARMELE 1917-2011
Edna, widow of Charles Sergeant [Harry Dillon, Henry William, Moses William, James, Moses, Hezekiah,
Joel, John, John], died Feb. 6, 2011, at Ridgecrest Village Retirement Home in Davenport, Scott County, Iowa.
She was born in 1917 in Lorimor, Union County, Iowa, the daughter of Walter Lee and Retta Mae Bridenstine.
She and Charles were married June 17, 1944; he died in 2000. Together they farmed in north Bettendorf, Scott
County, Iowa. Edna worked as a art teacher in Mediapolis, Des Moines County, Iowa; Rockford, Winnebago
County, Ill.; and Davenport. Upon retirement in 1944, she worked as a substitute teacher in the Davenport and
Bettendorf school districts. An avid reader, Edna participated most of her life in book clubs, but first and
foremost, she was an artist, who exhibited her paintings and won several Quad City awards. Her memberships included:
First Presbyterian Church of Davenport, IHN Circle of the King's Daughters, Friends of Art, American Association of
University Women, and Republican Women of Scott County. She also volunteered at Ridgecrest Service League and was
active in its choir. She is survived by son Ronald of Midland, Midland County, Mich.; daughter Margaret Lucia, Carlisle,
Cumberland County, Pa.; 11 grandchildren; and 11 great-grandchildren. Burial was at Davenport's Pine Hill Cemetery.
GRACE J. (PARMLEY) NYGARD 1924-2011
Grace [Chester Wilfred, Chester Nelson, Frederick David, William Cockfield, Solomon, Mark, Mark, Job, John, John; and also Chester Wilfred, Chester Nelson, Frederick David, Elisa Ann, Reuben, Levi, Mark, Job, John, John], widow of Eric G. Nygard and a resident of Southington, Hartford County, Conn., died Feb. 3, 2011, at the Connecticut Hospice in Branford, New Haven County, Conn. She was born in Attleboro, Bristol County, Mass., on July 10, 1924, the daughter of the Rev. Chester Wilfred and Sarah (Wilcox) Parmley. She is survived by daughter Sharon Hudson of Southington; son Paul of Southington; brother Robert of Lenoir, Caldwell County, N.C.; four grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren. Grace was also predeceased by brother Stanley. A private graveside service will be held in the spring in Southington's South End Cemetery. The Paul A. Shaker / Farmingdale Funeral Home, New Britain, was in charge of arrangements.
ERNEST ARTHUR PARMLEY 1938-2011
Ernest [unplaced] died Jan. 28, 2011, at the Life Care Center of Tullahoma, Coffee and Franklin counties,
Tenn.. A native of Johnston City, Williamson County, Ill., he was the son of Arthur E. and Flora Grace
(Anderson) Parmley, and born Dec. 28, 1938. Ernest was a member of the Sauk Village Church of God in
Illinois. He is survived by daughter Debbie Truesdale of Illinois; brother Millard of California; sisters Joann
Sweeney of Manchester, Peggy Turner of Manchester, Pamela Boyd of Dunlap, Sequatchie County, Tenn., Linda
Perry of Steger, Cook and Will counties, Ill., and Judy Randol of Blue Island, Cook County, Ill.; and two
grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. He was preceded in death by his wife, Hazel (Trussell) Parmley in
2007; and brothers Charles and Richard. A memorial service was held in the Tullahoma Funeral Home Chapel with Bro.
James Riddle officiating.
GAVIN RAY JACK 2011-2011
Gavin, son of Ashley Parmele [unplaced] and Martin Jack, died in his parents arms Jan. 10, 2011, at
Childrens Mercy Hospital in Kansas City, Johnson County, Mo. Gavin was born in St. Joseph, Buchanan
County, Mo., on Jan. 7, 2011. He is survived by his parents; maternal grandparents Candie and George
Elkins; paternal grandparents Larry and Sandy Jack; paternal grandmother Jackie Manor; maternal
great-grandparents Ed and Cathey Bossert; paternal great-grandmother Altha Rhoades; and aunts and uncles.
Services were at the Heaton-Bowman-Smith & Sidenfaden Chapel, and burial was at St. Joseph's Mt. Auburn
Cemetery. The family asks that memorial contributions be made to Childrens Mercy Hospital or Ronald
McDonalds House.
HALISTENE CARNELLA (PARMLEY) GREENE ca1913-2011
Services for Halistene [unplaced] were held Jan. 10, 2011, at Calvary Episcopal Church in Charleston, S.C.
She was born about 1913 and married Dr. Arthur David Greene on June 29, 1936, in Horry County, S.C.; he
died in 1976. Her survivors include son Dr. Arthur D.; grandchildren Ericka P. Gray, Kelley R. Dorsett and Dr.
Michael D. Greene; and four great-grandchildren. Burial was at Sunset Memorial Gardens in North Charleston,
S.C. Memorial contributions may be made to Calvary Episcopal Church Building Fund, 109 Line St.,
Charleston, SC 29403.
RUTH (PARMELEE) BENZ 1914-2011
Ruth [unplaced], a fourth-generation Californian, died Jan. 7, 2011. She was born March 25, 1914, and was a member of the Class of 1936 at Stanford. That same year she and Edward M. Benz were married. Among her survivors are son Edward, daughter Lee, five granddaughters, and four great-grandchildren.
ZELLA 'JANE' JANE (KIRK) PARMLEY 1929-2010
Jane, a resident of Mowrystown, Highland County, Ohio, and widow of Randolph Hay [Roland Duvall, Miles,
Emerson Bell, Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], died Dec. 29, 2010, at Hospice of
Hope Ohio Valley Inpatient Center at Seaman, Adams County, Ohio. She was born June 2, 1929, in Ewing,
Fleming County, Ky., the daughter of George and Alice (McGlone) Kirk. Her survivors include sons Randy Lee
of Batavia, Clermont County, Ohio, and Allan Ray of Mowrystown; daughters Anna Mae Fantetti of
Mowrystown, Donna Jean Riehle of Newtonsville, Clermont County, Ohio, Evelyn Kay Sturgeon of Wilmington,
Clinton County, Ohio, and Mary Jane Kinner of Mowrystown; brother Gene Sutherland of Williamsburg,
Clemont County, Ohio; sisters Lily Mae Kirk of Michigan, and Connie, Darlene and Georgie Mae Sutherland; 13
grandchildren; 25 great-grandchildren; five great-great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews. She was also
preceded in death by her adopted parents, Charles and Mary Sutherland, and 11 brothers and sisters. Services were at the
Meeker Funeral Home in Russellville, Brown County, Ohio, and burial was at the Locust Grove Cemetery in Peebles,
Adams County, Ohio. Memorial contributions may be made to the family to help with funeral expenses.
DAVIS CURRIER PALMER 1929-2010
Davis, husband of Kathy [Kenneth, --? --] and longtime school board member, died Dec. 28, 2010, in Chico,
Wise County, Texas. The cause of death could not be confirmed. Davis was born June 1, 1953, in Columbus,
Franklin County, Ohio. He graduated from Upper Arlington, Ohio, High School, received his undergraduate
degree from Miami University of Ohio, and his graduate degree from Ohio State University. After moving to the
Dallas area to accept employment with Electronic Data Systems Corp., Davis married Kathy Parmley, and they
soon made Trophy Club their home. He served on the Northwest Independent School District board for 13 years,
including two terms as president and was privileged to present diplomas to his children, Zach, currently a junior
at the University of North Texas, and Kali, upon their graduation. "Davis was an outstanding board member," said Karen
Rue, district superintendent. Said board President Mark Schluter: "He was concerned about every child in the district. It
didn't matter whether they were on the east side, west side, south side or north side. He had a great passion for all kids."
Davis regularly volunteered for the Roanoke Food Pantry, Boy Scout Troop 328, various athletic teams and other local
charities. Services were held at Fellowship United Methodist Church in Trophy Club. Memorial donations may be sent to
the Roanoke Food Pantry or the Children's Advocacy Center of Denton County.
JAMES 'LOU' LEWIS PARMELEE 1919-2010
Lou [James Thompson, Cornelius C., Timothy Judson, Lyman, Amos, Nehemiah, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John,
John] died Dec. 14, 2010, at St. Mary's Hospital in Waterbury, New Haven County, Conn. He was born Oct. 26,
1919, in Waterbury, son of James Thompson and Louise Judd (Fontaine) Parmelee. He lived most of his life in
Bethlehem, Litchfield County, Conn., and owned and operated a lawn mower sales and service business. Lou
enjoyed antique cars; his pride and joy was his 1912 Model T Ford Touring Car, and he was a founding member
of the Connecticut Crankin' Yanks Car Club. His other hobbies included beekeeping and bowling. He belonged
to the George Knox Bowling League at Thomaston Lanes and was the oldest active bowler in the league,
bowling until he was 89. Besides his wife of 58 years, Adela, he is survived by a son Robert of Bethlehem; daughters,
Jamie Norris of Palm Coast, Fla., and Joan Arnold of Naugatuck, New Haven County, Conn.; four grandchildren and
numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by brothers Earle, Ralph and Charles; and sisters Gladys Kaschel,
Hazel Judson and Carolyn Wheeler. The Woodbury Funeral Home of Munson-Lovetere was in charge of arrangements.
Burial was at the Bethlehem Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to Bethlehem Ambulance Assn., P.O. Box
401, Bethlehem CT 06751.
CHERYL ANN (REDDER) PARMLEY 1946-2010
Cheryl [unplaced] died Nov. 20, 2010, at her home in Henderson, Clark County, Nev. She was born Aug. 29,
1946, in Auburn, Cayuga County, N.Y, the daughter Harlan Fredrick and Thelma Ruth (Close) Redder. She is
survived by son Michael; daughters Kelli Parmley and Sheila Pankas; brothers Harlan and Joe; and
grandchildren Kylie, Matthew, Mikaylah and Jaden. She was preceded in death by brother Mark and son Fay Jr.
A memorial service was held at Myers Park in Lansing, N.Y., in the spring of 2011. Memorial contributions may
be made to the Vasculitis Foundation.
GEORGE 'FRANK' FRANKLIN WILMETH 1919-2010
Frank, a farmer, World War II veteran and husband of Virgina Parmely [unplaced], died Nov. 11, 2010, in Selmer, McNairy County, Tenn. He was born Nov. 21, 1919 in McNairy County, son of Logan and Lorena (Deming) Wilmeth. After serving in the Army during World War II, Frank went to work for the GM&O Railroad. He and Virginia were married on April 6, 1957. He later operated a gas station in Ramer and also was the owner and operator of Wilmeth's Grocery. He drove a school bus for the McNairy County School system for 35 years, and retired from the Tennessee Forestry Department after 17 years. One of his great pleasures in life was being on his tractor and working on his farm, where he raised cattle, hogs, and goats. He was a member of the Antioch Church of Christ in Ramer, McNairy County, Tenn. In addition to his widow, of Pocahontas, Hardeman County, Tenn., he is survived by daughters Pam Horton and Karen Bowers both of Ramer; four grandchildren; and many nephews, nieces, cousins, and friends. Frank was preceded in death by brothers James, Fred and Wesley; and nephew Rufus Wilmeth. Services were at Shackelford Funeral Directors of Selmer, and burial was at Ramer's Antioch Church of Christ Cemetery.
GRACE ELIZABETH PARMELEE 1926-2010
Grace [unplaced], a resident of Plainville, Hartford County, Conn., died Nov. 2, 2010. She was born in New
Britain, Hartford County, Conn., on Nov. 10, 1926, the only child of the Earle C. and Pearl (Cordier) Parmelee.
After graduating Plainville High School, Grace pursued a career in bookkeeping and was employed at the
Plainville Lumber Co., and D&L in New Britain. Grace lived a simple life, finding joy through her love of
animals and her cat, Frisky II. She lived her life on her own terms, and is now at peace from the many life
struggles that she endured. A celebration of Graces life was held at Plainville's West Cemetery. Contributions
may be made in her name to the Connecticut Humane Society, 701 Russell Road, Newington, CT 06111. Bailey
Funeral Home in Plainville handled arrangements.
JAMES WILLIAM PARMELEE 1942-2010
James [James Thomas, Leander Burton, Timothy Truman, Timothy, Mark, Job, John, John], a retired chief
financial officer and a retired master sergeant in the U.S. Army Reserves, died Oct. 21, 2010, at his home at
Spring Hill, Johnson County, Kans. Jim was born June 11, 1942, at Fort Jackson in Columbia, Richland County,
S.C., to James Thomas and June May (Hartung) Parmelee. He grew up in Wisconsin, was a graduate of the
University of Maryland. He served in the US Army Reserves from 1966 to 2002. Jim and Beverly Labrie were
wed on March 24, 1979, in Shawnee, Johnson County, Kans. They lived in Olathe, Johnson County, Kans., and
moved to Spring Hill 20 years ago. He was the chief financial officer for Taylor Forge Engineered Systems in
Paola, Miami County, Kans, retiring after 33 years. He was a member of the Am Vets, the American Legion of Paola, and
the Elks. Jim served on boards of People to People of Greater Kansas City, the Paola Chamber of Commerce, KCCI of
Topeka, and the Kansas Manufacturing Association. He also served the Kansas Export Finance Committee. In addition to
his wife Bev, he is survived by sisters JoAnn Parmelee of Jerez de la Frontera, Spain, and Jill Peterson of Owasso, Rogers
County, Okla.; a niece and a nephew. He was preceded in death by an infant son. Services were at the Bruce Funeral Home
in Spring Hill. Inurnment was at Ft. Leavenworth National Cemetery.
CHARLES L. PARMLEY 1942-2010
Charles [unplaced] of Manchester, Coffee County, Tenn., a fan of gospel music and physical fitness training, died Oct, 13, 2010, at the Manchester Health Care Center. He was born Feb. 11, 1942, in Cook County, Ill., to Arthur E. and Flora Grace (Anderson) Parmley. Charles attended the Nazarene Church of Manchester. He is survived by brothers Millard of California and Ernest of Tullahoma, Coffee and Franklin counties, Tenn; sisters Joann Sweeney of Manchester, Peggy Turner of Manchester, Pamela Boyd of Dunlap, Sequatchie County, Tenn., Linda Perry of Steger, Cook and Will counties, Ill., and Judy Randol of Blue Island, Cook County, Ill. He was preceded in death by brother Richard. Services were at the chapel of the Central Funeral Home with Pastor Jimmy Hodge officiating. Burial was at Mount Carmel Methodist Church Cemetery in Manchester.
SHIRLEY A. (SCOTT) PARMELEE 1931-2010
Shirley, a homemaker and widow of Charles Melvin [Charles Tourot, Edmund James, Charles B., Asahel,
Charles, Hezekiah, Joel, John, John] Parmelee, died Oct. 10, 2010, in the care of Keystone Garden Estates,
Larksville. She was a lifelong resident of Forty Fort, Luzerne County, Pa. Shirley was born Feb. 27, 1931, the
daughter of Walter J. and Margaret E. (Thomas) Scott, and was a graduate of Forty Fort High School. She
always enjoyed the Pennsylvania outdoors and made a gift of her love of birds to her children and grandchildren.
She was a member of Forty Fort Presbyterian Church. Survivors include sons David of Dallas, Luzerne County,
Pa., and Mark of Jackson Township, Luzerne County, Pa.; grandchildren Benjamin, Susanna, Andrea, and
Michael Parmelee; and sister Vivian (Scott) Malczyk, of Nanjemoy, Charles County, Md. The Hugh B. Hughes & Son
Funeral Home of Forty Fort was in charge of arrangements. Burial was in Forty Fort Cemetery. Memorial donations may be
made to Forty Fort Presbyterian Church, 1224 Wyoming Ave., Forty Fort, PA 18704.
DOUGLAS LEE PARMLEY 1951-2010
Douglas [unplaced], a telephone technician, died Oct. 4, 2010, in Albany, Linn County, Ore. He was born June 11, 1951, in Lansing, Ingham County, Mich., the son of Carlton G. and Wilma A. Parmely in Lansing, Mich. As a boy, he lived in Garden Grove, Orange County, Calif., and spent most of his life and raised his family in Willits, Mendocino County, Calif. Doug, who also worked for Costco, enjoyed deep-sea fishing, woodworking, pool, darts and puzzles. He is survived by Rita, his wife of 39 years; daughters Tame Shannon and Beverly Parmley; brothers Charles and Barry; sister Wilma Woods; and four grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents and brothers Michael and Terry. A celebration of his life was held at Crown Memorial Center in Salem, Marion County, Ore. Memorial contributions can be made in Dougs name to St. Jude Childrens Research Hospital.
JAMES LEE PARMLEY 1957-2010
James [William Charles, Wyatt Denman, Samuel Washington, George Washington, Edward Mitchison, Samuel, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a funeral director and gospel singer, died Sept. 25, 2010, after a long battle with a rare illness. He was born Aug. 13, 1957, in Dallas, Dallas County, Texas, the son of William "Billy" Charles and Frances Marie (Johnston) Parmley. The family moved to Nacogdoches, Nacogdoches County, Texas, when he was a boy, and he attended Stephen F. Austin State University. James moved to the Dallas area where he met his wife, Holly, and graduated from the Dallas Institute of Mortuary Science, where he was the class president. He worked as an embalmer at many of the funeral homes across the Dallas-Fort Worth area. He later became a medical massage therapist. As a young man, James loved to sing, especially old gospel songs. He was member of the Singing Christians and briefly had a Sunday night radio show, "Southern Gospel Now," on KBEC-AM (1390) out of Waxahachie, Ellis County, Texas. He and Cecil Pollack put together several gospel conventions, which were picked up by major broadcasting networks. James was an honorary member of the Blue Knights, Chapter 21, Rio Grande Conference, was involved in the motorcycle riding organization's annual chili cook-off, and believed charity of caring for abused children. In addition to his wife, James is survived by sons Joshua and Jermey; grandchildren Cheyenne and Chloe Parmley; brother Thomas; and stepfather Warren Gray. Services were at the Covenant Life Church of Waxahachie, Ellis County, Texas. Arrangements were handled by Wayne Boze Funeral Home in Waxahachie.
MARTHA J. (ANDRZEJEWSKI) PARMLEY 1927-2010
Martha, a former school bus driver and widow of Ralph Oliver [Parris E., Daniel Eliel, Ezra, James,
Jeremiah, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] Parmley, died Sept. 14, 2010, at her home in Dowagiac,
Cass County, Mich. She was born Aug. 18, 1927, in South Bend, St. Joseph County, Ind., the daughter of William
and Irene (Jaworski) Andrzejewski. Martha worked for Dowagiac Union Schools for 11 years as a driver, was
a foster grandparent for Cass Public School, and worked as a volunteer for Casa. She and Ralph were married
on Nov. 27, 1947; he died in 1988. She is survived by sons Brian and Bruce, both of Dowagiac, and Daniel of
Edwardsburg, Cass County, Mich.; daughter Kathleen Bailey of Eau Claire, Eau Claire County, Wis.; 11
grandchildren, including Bruce, Monica, Trevor, Joshua and Shannon Parmley; and 18 great-grandchildren. She was
preceded in death by a great-granddaughter and a foster daughter, Susan Polomcak. Services were held at Sacred Heart of
Mary Catholic Church led by Father Kevin Covert, and burial was at the church cemetery.
BERTHA LEE (PARMLEY) HEWKIN PATTERSON 1936-2010
Bertha [Laddon, James, Robert, Hiel C., John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John] an LPN in
California and Missouri in hospitals and nursing homes, died Sept. 12, 2010, at St. Louis, Mo. She was born
Oct. 26, 1936, at Potosi, Washington County, Mo. She and Homer Hewkin were married Nov. 29, 1953, and had
four children; she had a second marriage to John Gerald Patterson in St. James on July 13, 1978. She was a
member of the Everlasting Covenant Church, in Cuba, Crawford County, Mo. Her hobbies were sewing,
scrapbooking, gardening, quilting and flower arranging. She is survived by husband John; brothers Luther of St.
Louis and Floyd of Irondale, Washington County, Mo.; sisters Elizabeth Bunch of Potosi and Gracey Green of St.
Louis; 15 grandchildren; and seven great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his wife; brothers Raymond, Robert
and James; and sisters Barbara Koskecki and Mary Wright. The Hutson Funeral Home in Cuba was in charge of
arrangements. Burial was at Cuba's Meramec Hills Cemetery. Memorials may be given to the local American Cancer
Society.
KIMBERLY DAWN (CORMIER) PARMELEE 1964-2010
Kim, former wife of Jeffrey Allen Parmelee [Robert Allen, Fred Edgar, Harry Edwin, Frederick Luman,
James Edwin, Luman H., --?--], died July 21, 2010, at Oaklawn Hospital in Marshall, Calhoun County, Mich.,
following a brief illness. She was born July 4, 1964, in Detroit, Wayne County, Mich., the daughter of Rudolph
Fossano and Cheryl L. Cormier. She was a spiritual person who could tell you anything about the Bible. She and
Jeffrey were married May 22, 1993, in Pulaski County, Ky. Survivors include son Donnie Anderson; daughters
Beth and Samantha Parmelee; and her mother; all of Ypsilanti. She was preceded in death by sister Windy Allen
and grandmother Justina Cormier. Graveside services were held at Ypsilanti's Highland Cemetery.
DAVID EDWARD PARMLEY ca1950-2010
David [unplaced] died July 14, 2010, at Johnston Memorial Hospital in Abingdon, Washington County, Va. He was 59. He was born in Mississippi and had been a resident of Washington County for a brief period of time. He was a graduate of the University of Mississippi. He is survived by his father, Robert E. Parmley, and brother Bobby, both of Abingdon. He was preceded in death by his mother, Chrystal (Veal) Parmley, and by brothers Don and Terry. A graveside service was held at Abingdon's Bethel Presbyterian Cemetery.
CHARLES 'CHUCK' BLAKESLEE PARMELEE 1927-2010
Chuck [Samuel Blakeslee, Charles Ives, Samuel Blakeslee, Leander, Solomon, Roswell, Nehemiah, Nathaniel,
Nathaniel, John, John], retired owner of a construction company, died July 10, 2010, in an Augusta, Kennebec
County, Maine, nursing home. He died during a thundershower with his family members by his side, with one of
his screwdrivers, its handle worn smooth by years of steadfast use, in his hand. Born on April 24, 1927, in
Meriden, New Haven County, Conn., he was the son of Samuel and Helen (Kofoed) Parmelee. While growing
up, Chuck showed a keen aptitude for all things mechanical. He soon began learning the tricks of the carpentry
trade from his grandfather who educated him on woodworking techniques and the most efficient use of tools.
They were skills he would refine and use the rest of his life. He was known for his insistence on doing the job right and for
the craftsmanship he employed on projects in nearly every New England state. His only break from the construction
business was while serving in the U.S. Army in Germany at the end of World War II. While living in Connecticut in the
1960s he was involved in ham radio and was hired by the state to oversee the installation and operation of a statewide
network of civil defense radio stations. After moving to Maine in 1972, he settled in the Waldoboro, Lincoln County, area
where in 1973 he married Joyce (Foster) Brechlin whom he met when both worked at Quinlans Building Supply in
Meriden. The couple started C.B. Parmelee Inc., which soon became one of the best-known contracting firms in midcoast
Maine. The company built everything from takeout stands, to homes, to branch bank buildings. The firm was known for the
slogan painted on its fleet of trucks: "Dont trust to luck, call Chuck." Chuck also built or remodeled several homes for
himself, and over the years he was the first to step up to help family members erect their own houses. He was a member of
the choir at the Waldoboro United Methodist Church, a member of the towns planning board, the local American Legion,
Rotary International and served as a Boy Scout leader for many years. After retirement, he and Joyce moved to a home in
Jefferson, Lincoln County, Maine, where he pursued one of the great passions in his life, fishing. In 2001, Chuck was
diagnosed with Alzheimers disease. He and Joyce moved to Bar Harbor, Hancock County, Maine, in 2005, where both
became members of the Bar Harbor Congregational Church. Chuck spent the last four years at Sonogee in Bar Harbor and
the Maine Veterans Home in Augusta. He is survived by his widow Joyce, of Damariscotta, Lincoln County, Maine; brother
David of Connecticut; children Earl Brechlin of Bar Harbor, Dale Brechlin of Harpers Ferry, Jefferson County, W.Va.,
Patricia Lane of Damariscotta, and Barbara Saunders of Tenants Harbor, Knox County, Maine; sons from his first marriage
Scott, William and Rick of Connecticut; as well as numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was predeceased
by Carl Brechlin, of Meriden; and brother Robert of Connecticut. Donations may be made to Boy Scout Troop 142 c/o the
United Methodist Church, 95 Friendship St., Waldoboro ME 04572 or the Lincoln County Animal Shelter, 27 Atlantic
Highway, Edgecomb ME 04556. A memorial service was held at the church in Waldoboro.
RAY HARRISON PARMELEE II 1946-2010
Ray [Ray Harrison, Earl Grover, Linus, Erastus K., Joshua, Joshua, Jehiel, Joshua, John, John], a deacon of the Diocese of Toledo assigned to St. Michael the Archangel in Findlay, Hancock County, Ohio, died June 23, 2010. Ray was born April 13, 1946, in Grand Rapids, Kent County, Mich.. to Ray Harrison. and Mary (Drenten) Parmelee. He and Anna Lynn Williams were married May 31, 1969. Ray worked at Cooper Tire & Rubber Co. in Findlay for 32 years and was ordained a permanent deacon May 17, 2003. He was a 1968 graduate of Murray State University, a 1986 graduate of The University of Findlay, received his masters degree from Tiffin University in 1994, and earned a masters degree of pastoral ministry from St. Marys University in Winona, Minn., in 2005. Survivors include his widow, Anna; sons Ray III and Robert; daughters Rebecca Burrier and Anne Marie Parmelee; mother Mary of Findlay; brother Robert; and six grandchildren, including Steven, Madeline, Natalie and Evelyn Parmelee.
HAROLD 'TAD' LESLIE PARMELEE III 1946-2010
Tad [Harold Leslie, Harold Leslie, Benjamin Franklin, Samuel Ward, David, David, Joseph, Joseph, Isaac, John, John], originally of Maple Shade, Burlington County, N.J., and more recently from Sandwich, De Kalb County, Ill., died June 18, 2010, in Sycamore, De Kalb County, Ill. He was born Sept. 7, 1942, to Harold and Ella M. (Walton) Parmelee Jr. A Moorestown High 1960 graduate, he attended Furman University in South Carolina, and in 1965 was united in marriage to Joyce Ann Snyder. He is survived by his widow; daughter Rebecca Ostrega; grandchildren Jessica Rae Parmelee and Jacob Thomas Ostrega; and sisters Joy Wilcox and Patti Thompson. Burial was at Oakland Cemetery in Philadelphia. Arrangements were handled by the Mark C. Tilghman Funeral Home in Maple Shade.
RUSSELL FREDERICK PARMLEY 1913-2010
Russell [Alvin Orsemus, Russell, Truman, Joshua, Jehiel, Joshua, John, John], a resident of Ogden, Weber County, Utah, died May 19, 2010 of complications from pneumonia and Waldenstrom's disease, a rare form of blood cancer. Services were held at Lindquist's Ogden Mortuary. Burial was at Ogden City Cemetery.
RICHARD E. HOMMON 1925-2010
Dick, a 30-year employee of Rockwell Automotive and the husband of Margaret "Peggy" Parmelee [unplaced] for 60 years, died May 14, 2010, at Flint Ridge Nursing and Rehabilitation Center at Newark, Licking County, Ohio. He was born Dec. 5, 1925, in Newark, the son of Roland A. and Mary V. (Hatfield) Hommon. Dick was a 1948 graduate of the Ohio School for the Deaf in Columbus where he played football for four years. He spent many years as a lifeguard at the Hollander Street municipal pool where many of the kids gave him the nickname of "Tarzan." Dick retired from Rockwell in 1981. He fought a long hard battle with cancer and Parkinson's disease. In addition to his widow, Dick is survived by sons Gregory of Mount Vernon, Knox County, Ohio, and John of Newark; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by sister Betty J. Armstrong. Burial was at Newark Memorial Gardens. Brucker & Kishler Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements.
JAMES HENDERSON PARMLEY 1926-2010
James [Miles "Bill" Monroe, Frank "Hence," Miles R., Garner, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel,
John, John], a long-time treasurer of his church, died May 12, 2010, at Veterans Hospital in Lexington, Fayette
County, Ky. He was born Dec. 20, 1926 at Parnell, Wayne County, Ky., to Miles and Martha (Humble) Parmley.
He and Eva Stinson were married Jan. 10, 1948. In addition to his widow, he is survived by daughter Virginia
Redfearn of Georgetown, Scott County, Ky.; sisters Eva Whitt, Lela Daniels and Jean Britt; brothers Olan and
Donald; two grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by sister Mary Smith; and
brothers Johnny, Robert and Glenn. He served his country during World War II and was a member of the
Taylor's Grove Baptist Church. Burial was at Taylor's Grove Cemetery. Donations in his name may be made to the church
cemetery fund. Hickey and Son Funeral Home was in charge of arrangements.
MILDRED A. (PRESTEGARD) CASTIGLIANO PARMLEY 1910-2010
Mildred, an accomplished stenographer and the widow of Pollock "Podge" [Charles Calvin, Calvin House, Quartus, Giles, Jeremiah, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], died May 5, 2010, at Tabitha Home in Lincoln, Lancaster County, Nebr. She was born Dec. 15, 1910, in Brodhead, Green County, Wisc., the daughter of Oscar and Bessie Prestegard. She first married Virgil Castigliano, and then Podge in 1959. She worked as an administrative assistant for the Burlington Railroad and as a legislative assistant in the Nebraska Legislature. Mildred was a member of the PEO, a professional womens organization, and Grace Lutheran Church in Lincoln, Lancaster County, Nebr., for more than 60 years. She is survived by sons Rev. Serge A. Castigliano of Putnam Valley, Putnam County, N.Y.; Daniel G. Castigliano of Venice, Sarasota County, Fla., and Richard V. Castigliano of Prescott, Yavapai County, Ariz.; step-daughter Polly (Parmele) Swift of Glenview, Cook County, Ill.; eight grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, and three great-great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by Podge in 1994. Inurnment was at Oak Hill Cemetery, near Plattsmouth, Cass County, Nebr.
DYAN DALE (PILKINGTON) PARMLEY 1944-2010
Dyan, a retired employee of the Stephen F. Austin State University Library and wife of Jerry Max [Hollis
Nunley, George Washington, Edward Mitchison, Samuel, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], died
April 11, 2010, at her home in Woden, Nocogdoches County, Texas. While receiving her treatments at MD
Anderson Cancer Center, she would refuse to be pushed in a wheelchair or ride the shuttle. She was born June
10, 1944, in Weches, Houston County, Texas, the daughter of John H. and Martha Marie (Burran) Pilkington. She
was graduated from Kennard High School in Houston County. She and Jerry were married July 19, 1976. She
worked as a bookkeeper at Barnhill Poultry and the Nacogdoches Lumber Co. before a decade of employment at
the university library. She was a member of Woden United Pentecostal Church and collected cookbooks. In addition to her
husband, she is survived by son Max Jr. of Woden; sister Jean Hammons of Weches; brothers John of Belott, Houston
County, Texas, Fred of Weches, and James of Fairfield, Freestone County, Texas. Services were at Laird Funeral Home
with the Rev. Barry T. Rankin officiating. Burial was be at Simpson Campground Cemetery.
CLEO ALICE (PARMLEY) JENKINS 1908-2010
Cleo [Philmore Bethel, James Emery, James, Robert, John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a
retired clerk of the U.S. Postal Service, died March 17, 2010, at St. Vincent Medical Center, Portland,
Multnomah County, Ore. She was born Oct. 12, 1908, in Banks, Washington County, Ore., the daughter of the
Philmore B. and Viola L. (Shipley) Parmley. She was a 1926 graduate of the Banks High School and attended
Pacific University in Forest Grove, Multnomah County, Ore., for two years. She and Nile Jenkins were married
Dec. 23, 1933, in Rockaway, Tillamook County, Ore. The couple lived in Garibaldi, Tillamook County, Ore.,
and Rainier, Columbia County, Ore. She retired from the Postal Service in Rainier in 1969. She was a member
of the Order of the Eastern Star Chapter in Rainier and enjoyed traveling, knitting and crocheting. Survivors include stepson
Calvin Jenkins of Reno, Washoe County, Nev.; brothers Clinton A. of Forest Grove, and Clifford M. of Bend, Deschutes
County, Ore.; sister Charlotte Bake of St. Helen's, Columbia County, Ore.; and numerous nieces and nephews. She was
preceded in death by husband Nile in 1985, brother Cecil Parmley; and sister Christine Mael. She was buried at Forest
Grove's Forest View Cemetery.
JAMES L. PARMLEY 1920-2010
James [unplaced] of Geneseo, Livingston County, N.Y., died April 18, 2010, after a brief illness. He was 89.
Jim was born Dec. 29, 1920, in East Venice, Cayuga County, N.Y., the son of Fred and Sarah (Lamphere)
Parmley. After serving four years in the U.S. Coast Guard, Jim resided in Binghamton, Broome County, N.Y., for
many years before moving to Geneseo. He retired from the State University of New York, Geneseo, in 1980. He
is survived by his wife of 60 years, Charlotte (Cooper); sons James of Manlius and David of Hornell, Steuben
County, N.Y.; daughter Anne Dunn of Sylvan Beach, Oneida County, N.Y.; grandsons Bryan J. Parmley of
Manlius, Onondaga County, N.Y., and Shawn Masse of Oneida, Madison County, N.Y.; great-granddaughter
Katherine Parmley of Manlius; sister Frances Rolls of Binghamton; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in
death by grandson Michael Parmley. Burial was at St. Mary's Cemetery in Geneseo. Contributions may be made to
Livingston County Hospice, 2 Livingston County Campus, Mt. Morris, N.Y. 14510-1691.
RUBY N. SHEPARD 1937-2010
Ruby, a homemaker of Brookville, Franklin County, Ind., died 72, April 25, 2010. Born Aug. 22, 1937, in Kingsport, Sullivan and Hawkins counties, Tenn., she was the daughter of John William and Gladys Mae (Hite) Propes. Survivors include husband James; sons Timothy Parmley, Moley Parmley, Bob Shepard, Bill Norman and James Norman; daughter Judy Bolser; sisters Gerdie Foreman, Linda Petagrove and Charlene Williamson; brothers Lester, John Jr. and Greg Propes. The Phillips & Meyers Funeral Home of Brookville was in charge of arrangements.
ARNOLD EDWARD PARMLEY 1930-2010
Arnold [unplaced] of Big Spring, Howard County, Texas, died April 25, 2010. He was born Feb. 14, 1930, in
Big Spring, Texas, to Dr. Lee and Agnes Parmley and was a member of a Howard County Pioneer Family. His
grandparents were Henry Brown and Nora Louise (Barber) Arnold. His father was an early day physician in Big
Spring. Arnold grew up in Howard County and then attended Park Union Military School in Virginia and Morey
Military School in Dallas, Dallas County, Texas. He served in the U.S. Army Medical Corps in Korea and
Japan. He had worked as an optician in Big Spring and later worked a number of years at the Veterans
Administration Medical Center in Kerrville, returning to Big Spring about 10 years ago. Arnold had lived the
last several years at Lamun-Lusk-Sanchez Texas Veterans Home. He was a Baptist. He is survived by several cousins.
Graveside services were held at Mt. Olive Memorial Park. Memorials may be made to Cal Farleys Boys Ranch, PO Box
1890, Amarillo, Texas 79174; or Vincent Baptist Church, 604 Bucknell Ave., Big Spring 79720. Arrangements were by
Myers & Smith Funeral Home.
ERIC L. PARMLEY 1959-2010
Eric [unplaced] died March 15, 2010, at his home in Adrian, Lenawee County, Mich. He was employed at
Hardwoods of Michigan and enjoyed tinkering with cars and being outdoors. Eric was born Dec. 21, 1959, in
Jackson, Jackson County, Mich., the son of George and Glenda (Gordon) Parmley. He is survived by his mother
of Baton Rouge, Baton Rouge Parish, La.; his father and stepmother Jean of Tipton, Lenawee County, Mich.;
daughter Ashley and her mother Angela of Adrian; brother Andrew of Whitehall, Muskegon County, Mich.;
sisters Cheryl Villarreal of Houston, Harris County, Texas, and Vicki Boswell of Jasper, Midland County,
Mich.; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, one brother, and uncles
David and Ralph. Services were at Handler Funeral Home with the Rev. Edward Bambach of Tecumseh Church of the
Nazarene officiating. Entombment was at Brookside Cemetery in Tecumseh, Lenawee County, Mich. Memorial
contributions may be made to Hospice of Lenawee.
POLLY ANN (SHUPP) PARMELEE 1927-2010
Polly, widow of Donald Seymour [Harold Lesley, Benjamin Franklin, Samuel Ward, David, David, Joseph,
Joseph, Isaac, John, John] died at her home in Boise, Ada County, Idaho, on March 10, 2010, after a tough, yet
graceful battle with cancer. She was born to Harry and Clara Shupp on Aug. 26, 1927, in Newberrytown, York
County, Pa. She was a member of the York High School class of 1945 and, in 1949, received her bachelor's
degree in health and physical education from West Chester State College, where she met Don Parmelee. The two
were married Aug. 27, 1949, and headed to Idaho, where both had teaching positions in Grand View, Owyhee
County. In 1951, they went on to Marsing, Owyhee County, Idaho, where Don was principal and Polly was a
teacher. They moved to Caldwell, Canyon County, Idaho, 1953 after Don accepted a position at the College of Idaho. Over
the next 20 years, Polly was a ballet and modern dance instructor at her own studio, Parmelee Dance Studio, and taught
physical and special education in the Boise and Caldwell school systems. In 1974, Polly and Don embarked on an overseas
adventure and spent the next 10 years teaching in Manila, Philippines; Manama Bahrain; Khamis Mushait, Saudi Arabia;
and Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia. They retired in 1984 and settled in Boise. Polly is survived by daughters Sue Cook, Jan
Atkinson and Jill Gibbons; grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in
death by husband Don; and brothers Jack and Jerry. The family held an open house at her home. Contributions may be made
to the College of Idaho or the Caldwell PEO chapter.
ROBERT L. PARMELE ca1945-2010
Bob [unplaced], a real estate industry veteran who led the Tulsa Metropolitan Area Planning Commission for
nearly a decade, died Feb. 28, 2010, at his home in Tulsa, Tulsa County, Okla., home. He was 65. Bob suffered
a heart attack several months ago, family members said. A Tulsa native and graduate of Hale High School and
the University of Tulsa, Bob joined Parmele Real Estate, which his father, Robert L. Sr., started in 1953, and
Cinnabar Service Co., a land and right-of-way acquisition firm that he co-owned. "Bob had probably forgotten
more about real estate than most people ever knew," said Howard Kelsey, a close friend and longtime business
associate. "From real property to zoning and planning, whatever; he was a wealth of knowledge on the subject."
Bob was a member of the Planning Commission from 1978 through the early 1990s, including eight years as its chairman. In
2005, he concluded a nine-year stint in the Tulsa County Public Facilities Authority. Terry Young, a former Tulsa mayor
and county commissioner and a business colleague of Bob's, first met him while on the Planning Commission. "The first
thing I noticed about Bob was how smart he was," Young said. "He had one of the sharpest and fastest minds I've ever
known." Bob also made a name for himself as a real estate appraiser and was a principal with Appraisal Specialists of
Tulsa. Bob's name has been associated more recently with the federal buyouts in the Tar Creek area in northeastern
Oklahoma. Cinnabar, a Tulsa business that contracts with public and private entities, oversaw the appraisal and acquisition
of properties within the Tar Creek Superfund site, a 40-square-mile area once home to mining. Bob was one of the
principals of a company that was formed early this decade to build and operate a proposed Arkansas River toll bridge to
connect Tulsa and Jenks, a controversial plan that ultimately was shelved, reports show. A noted golfer, Bob also was an
expert angler whose office wall was a showcase of trophies from far-flung fishing expeditions. He was a board member for
the Southwestern Regional Medical Center of Cancer Treatment Centers of America, a former board member of the 12&12
Substance Abuse Center, and served on the Greater Tulsa Assn. of Realtors board. Bob is survived by sons Michael,
Darren and Bobby; daughter Claire Tousley; his father, Robert L. Sr.; sister Linda Weible; and granddaughter Maren, who
was adopted from China. Arrangements were handled by the Ninde Brookside Funeral Home.
DOROTHY LOUISE (ASHBY) PARMELE ca1928-2010
Dorothy, wife of Ralph Owen [Owen Settles, Francis "Frank" Owen, Luman E., Lucius Seth, Seth, Giles, Jeremiah, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], and a resident of Dundas, Richland County, Ill., died Feb. 15, 2010, at age 82. She was the daughter of John Alfred and Ida (Phillips) Ashby. In addition to her husband, she is survived by daughters Judith Sayre and Janet Silvious; son Ralph Jr.; six grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. Burial was at Parklawn Cemetery in Rockville, Montgomery County, Md. Arrangements were handled by the Summers-Kistler Funeral Home in Olney, Ill. Memorial contributions may be made to the Luther Rice Baptist Church, 801 University Blvd. W., Silver Spring, MD 20901.
DONALD LATT PARMELEE 1919-2010
Donald [Clifford Hunt, Samuel Benjamin, Eliab Harvey, Eliab, Eliab, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John,
John], a retired General Electric mechanical engineer and a resident of Paducah, McCracken County, Ky., died
Feb. 13, 2010. He was born May 20, 1919, in Syracuse, Onondaga County, N.Y., son of Clifford and Louise
Magdeline (Latt) Parmelee. Donald and his brothers were all active Boy Scouts and he achieved the rank of
Eagle Scout. He served as an ambulance driver in the American Field Service in India during World War II. He
was graduated from Cornell University in Ithaca, Tompkins County, N.Y., with a Bachelor of Mechanical
Engineering degree. He spent most of his career working for GE, working on projects from the Minuteman
Missile system to the Apollo 11 project of putting a man on the moon. He enjoyed his interesting and challenging work as
well the opportunity to travel and live abroad. Don and his first wife, Bettie (Clarke), later opened and operated Desert
Sage Gifts, a ceramics manufacturing company, in Mesa, Ariz., until their retirement. Surviving are son Brian Parmelee of
Eugene, Lane County, Ore, Oregon; Eileen Segebarth of Paducah; six grandchildren including Rhiannon Parmelee of
Seattle, Kings County, Wash., and Karen and Tyler Parmelee of Eugene, Ore.; and several stepchildren and
step-grandchildren. Preceding him in death were wives Bettie and Beatrice Toni (Wagar); son Kevin; and brothers
Howard, Samuel and Robert. A Funeral Mass was will be held at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, February 20, 2010, at The Rev.J.
Patrick Reynolds of St. Thomas More Catholic Church of Paducah lead a Funeral Mass. Burial was private. Memorials
may be made to Hiawatha Seaway Boy Scout Council, 2803 Brewerton Road, Syracuse, NY 13211; or The Brothers and
Sisters of Charity at Little Portion Hermitage, 350 County Road 258, Berryville, AR 72616. Milner & Orr Funeral Home of
Paducah was in charge of arrangements.
CHRISTEN NICOLE PARMLEY ca1987-2010
Christen [Jay Michael, James B., Laddon, James, Robert, Hiel C., John, Giles, Hiel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel,
John, John], of Bourbon, Crawford County, Mo., was killed Feb. 7, 2010, in a Franklin County traffic accident.
The Missouri Highway Patrol said that she was driving east in the westbound lanes of Interstate 44 when her
1998 Monte Carlo collided head-on with a tractor trailer. She is survived by her mother, Tracey "J.C."
Greenway, siblings and Jay M. II, Brian and Alex Parmley; grandmother Lela Ernsburger; aunt Katelyn Parmley;
cousins and friends. Burial was at St. Louis' Mount Hope Cemetery.
RALPH ALLEN PARMELEE 1914-2010
Ralph [George Adelbert, Frank Roselle, Loren Dow, Anson, Salmon, Aaron, Abraham, Isaac, John, John], a sanitary inspector and resident of Lansing, Ingham County, Mich., died Jan. 12, 2010, at Covenant Life Worship Center, Haslett, He was born Aug. 24, 1914, the son of George Adelbert and Daisy (Neuman) Parmelee. His first wife was Dorothy Mae Belbeck, whom he married on Nov. 24, 1936, in Lansing; she died in 1938. He and his second wife, Helen Hewitt, were the parents of Shirley and Frederick. He was predeceased by brother Charles in 1998. Arrangements under the direction of Gorsline Runciman Funeral Homes in Lansing,
ELIZABETH 'LIZ' ANN PARMELE 1922-2010
Liz, a hairdresser and the widow of David Seth Parmele [Earl Calvin, Lyman Seth, Giles, Seth, Giles,
Jeremiah, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], died Jan. 10, 2010, at Heritage Manor Nursing Home,
Colfax, McLean County, Ill. She was a resident of Fairbury, Livingston County, Ill. She was born Oct. 15, 1922,
in Fairbury, the daughter of James Garfield and Naoma (Ramseyer) Drennen. Liz was a 1941 graduate of
Fairbury Township High School and later attended beauty school in Peoria, Peoria County, Ill. She owned and
operated the Merle Norman Studio in Fairbury for 17 years. She and David were married Feb. 8, 1947, in
Fairbury. In 1966, they moved to Fort Collins, Larimer County, Colo., where she continued her Merle Norman
career until her retirement in 1987. Liz was an avid bowler and competed in many league tournaments. She became a
die-hard Chicago Cubs fan while wintering in Mesa, Maricopa County, Ariz., for nearly 14 years. In 2005, Liz moved back
to the Fairbury area. Surviving are sister Phyllis Tipton of Fairbury; nephew, Jim Tipton of Fairbury; and nieces Mary
McCambridge, of Windsor, Weld County, Colo., Sandy Veal of Middleburg, Clay County, Fla., and Jean Masters,
Stamford, Fairfield County, Conn. She was preceded in death by sister Wilma Hacker, and husband David, who died in
2004. Duffy-Pils Memorial Home of Fairbury was assisting with her arrangements. The family suggests memorial
contributions be directed to the First Presbyterian Church or to the Dominy Memorial Library, both in Fairbury.
SUZANNE (PARMELY) AINSWORTH 1947-2010
Suzanne [Kenneth Merle, James "Ted" Edward, Charles Franklin, James Edward, Ezra, James, Jeremiah, Lemuel, Nathaniel, Nathaniel, John, John], a resident of Ottawa, Franklin County, Kans., died Jan. 3, 2010, at Coffey County Hospital in Burlington, Kans. She was born Feb. 21, 1947, at Topeka, Shawnee County, Kans., to Kenneth M. and Dorothy Dee (Alexander) Parmely, and was a graduate of Waverly High School. Services were at Waverly United Methodist Church and burial was at Waverly Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be sent to Sunset Manor.
MARCUS JAMES PARMELEE 1921-2010
Marcus [unplaced], a resident of San Leadron, Alameda County, Calif., died Jan. 2, 2010. He was born June 27, 1921, in Honolulu, Honolulu County, Hawaii. He will be missed by his beloved yellow Lab, Josh, who was his constant companion since the death of his wife of almost 40 years, Mary, in 2006. A graveside memorial service was held at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Hayward, Alameda County, Calif.
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